It was a big bump in the road... Think of all the good things you ve accomplished over the last 2 years because you kept your marriage together :-)

It's actually the date of a new beginning for you. A little bittersweet but this will pass and you will be extraordinarily, happy!

My 2 year was so so much better than one year. One year sucked because I was going through a regression in my healing. But by year two I was in a much better place and chose to reclaim the day.

I was not going to define that day as a negative and give his actions and the painful past define that day for the rest if my life. Year two was my turning point. We had a wonderful family day and I di tell him that I needed to redefine it. My H was helpful in letting me create a great dsy and he helped fulfill it.

My dday was memorial day weekend. I took it back and so can you. It's the day you were released from the dark shadows of his lies and brought into the light. Yes there has been pain and difficulties but I can bet you are a much stronger and wiser woman today because of dday. Not because of his actions but because of having the truth and being given a chance to work through it rather then kept in the dark.

So take your dsy and your power back from the actions and pain of the past. Redefine dday and make it yours.

(((hugs)))
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Y'all are the bestest. Thank you.