Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Where to begin I don’t know....counseling is not an option that’s why I am here. I travel a lot so finding a way to get marriage counseling is really hard. I don’t know my weekly schedule till Friday’s at 430pm do getting appointments last minute is near impossible. I am in constant battle with myself blaming myself. I know there is nothing that I did wrong per say but I found out that my wife cheated on me. I deal with clients around the country working in occ health. My job does keep me away from my child and wife. However I call everyday FaceTime even when I can. I do this job not get away from them but to help support the family. So now I am just never happy lost interest in things that do hate coming home can’t look at my wife but my daughter well she is my world that’s the only reason why. My wife got caught by me now it’s different between us. She says we can work it out but that was November December of 2017 when I found the evidence no I didn’t walk in on them but what I saw on computer and her phone was enough. I might as well have walked in on them. Here it is Easter of 2018 and I despise my wife....but trying to keep family together for my daughter sake.....what advice is there for me ......so distraught and tired of pretending
You are going to need to time to talk to your wife and see if she really is repentant and what she is doing proactively to change and be accountable.
Counseling generally is necessary so try to find at least one day a week you can do this.
You can change jobs. Before you come up with a million excuses of why you cannot, think about it.
Cheaters understand consequences and boundaries. You wife must be sorry for what she did and allow you to track her and give you access to her phone, etc. And she needs to see a therapist. You can do the marriage counseling later. Cheaters tend to lie in MC.
I will never, ever defend a cheater, but if you are traveling all the time, what kind of life did you structure here?
The problem is that the way the family courts are that given your travel schedule and the fact you are a male.....physical custody will likely go to her in a divorce. No fault divorce nowadays just about every country/state.
You have all the angles covered and all the solutions.
Seems like you have the resources and lawyer teams to help you out of any bind you find yourself in.
Good luck.
I didn’t have to, I could have just told him that seeing each other 5 min a day, 4 days a week and the other three 4 hours a Day should be enough. He should have just sucked it up right? Lived without sex and affection. aparently he thought differently.