Isn't it interesting? It seems that a lot of people look no further than their jobs for extra-curricular sex. What I like to call "quick and easy.'' That's pretty lazy. It says a couple of things to me, though: 1.) that these relationships really aren't necessarily rooted in sex. Yes, it's available sex, but 2.) it's also a conduit to boast about getting some on the side to the other men. And because of the proximity, they surely aren't all really in love. Although try tellling that to the OW. It's really sad. My friend said a guy at work came onto her, saying that he was in an open relationship with his W, and asked her to go out with him. Without blinking, she said, "Tell your wife to call me so that we can discuss this little arrangement.'' His eyes got really big. Like he had seen a ghost. and he said nothing. Never even spoke to her after that. Amazing!