Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So, the whore that had an affair with my husband. I was talking to a friend yesterday and she told me that the word is out about "the whore". Seems that people that go to our church(yes we go to the same church) way before it was out about her and my H had already formed their own opinions of her. She was already and slut and no good in their eyes because of even the way she dresses when she goes to church. Now, nobody would ever say anything to her, but their opinions were formed. That is so nice to know. She has always dressed like the tramp she is. And yes, she still is. Anyway sweet results because another person went up to my friend yesterday and said she had heard what had happened and actually wasn't surprised. Said they always knew something was wrong with her. This person isn't the only one who has said something. Others just acknowledge her and let her alone because they don't want to deal with her drama. They have told me it is easier to pretend to be her friend and not really have anything to do with her than to ignore her because she is not worth the effort to tell her to stay away, which she won't and they know it. I understand, not the friend part but to ignore her and her hounding. Anyway in an odd way this story was rewarding to me that others really do see her for the whore she is!!!!!
Hell, even my stbx's youngest son asked why the OW "was naked" at his kid's softball game. (What he meant was her ta tas were hangin' out, not literally neked...but that came out of the mouths of babes! LMFAO!)
The OW? Although it's been 3 years since my divorce, I still hear it all of the time -- that she sucks, that she is a b----, that she is a tramp, she's the worst thing that ever happened to him, that she has herpes, that she is cheating on him, that she has not ethics. The list goes on. Heck, even my kids call her a whore.
People are not dumb. They see what these cheaters are all about. If she thinks she is fooling anyone, she is wrong.
I, too, got alot of support from my church community and my small town. It does help and makes it easier for me to move forward with my life.
So what's the draw? I just don't get it.
At first I only blamed my H for the fling later it was all her fault, but you know what it was both of their fault. They were both grown. I am accountable before God for my actions and now that I have let my hate for them go I'm ready to move forward.
Sounds like a church I know they just keep letting things happen over and over with different couples. Lord help us! Wonder what He thinks about it. Deal with the issue churches. There is Infidelity and Adultery! I need to find a good church pray for me people since you all go to church.