Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hi everyone,
My background story.
http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal/6564780
I posted about a week ago about how great I had been feeling, moving on with my life. It has only been 4 months since the ex husband left. and I have been doing great by having not contact.
Its been a whole week since he has been emailing me , telling me how wants to talk, telling me that he does not want to end things in bad terms, he wants us to end as two people who care for one another. In my head, it sounded amazing!!! That was all i had begged him to do for the first two months, to sit and talk to me and just end things in a peaceful way.
We were suppose to meet tomorrow. about 10 min ago, he wrote these exact same ways.
"sorry cnt meet tomorrow. goodnight. I am Ok with ending things like this"
How am i suppose to react to this? I am not crazy to get upset right? All he wanted to do was to play mind games. He will never change. Never.
I am not looking back, I might have taken a step back, but it helps to know that person you married is a complete sociopath, only out to hurt you .It helps you realize life will be so much better with out them.
My background story.
http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal/6564780
I posted about a week ago about how great I had been feeling, moving on with my life. It has only been 4 months since the ex husband left. and I have been doing great by having not contact.
Its been a whole week since he has been emailing me , telling me how wants to talk, telling me that he does not want to end things in bad terms, he wants us to end as two people who care for one another. In my head, it sounded amazing!!! That was all i had begged him to do for the first two months, to sit and talk to me and just end things in a peaceful way.
We were suppose to meet tomorrow. about 10 min ago, he wrote these exact same ways.
"sorry cnt meet tomorrow. goodnight. I am Ok with ending things like this"
How am i suppose to react to this? I am not crazy to get upset right? All he wanted to do was to play mind games. He will never change. Never.
I am not looking back, I might have taken a step back, but it helps to know that person you married is a complete sociopath, only out to hurt you .It helps you realize life will be so much better with out them.
Get back to healing you....and with that message, if it were me I wouldn't respond. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that he hurt you.
(((((Jgarc)))))
Well don't let the drama define you honey. Write back DITTO, so done! lol Hang in there, seems like you're on the path to a happier place. :)
Just tell him to go to hell.
There were no cells at that time and so when he finally called after a couple of hours, my mom decided to show him I wasn't waiting around. So when he asked for me she said I wasn't home. He then began to explain why he didn't call,sooner and how he lost track of time yadda yadda yadda. My mom said "oh don't feel bad I don't think she realized you were supposed to,go out, she went out hours ago.
Well when he and I spoke again he seemed insulted that imwas going to stand him up. I gave him his own line of crap,and we planned another date (apparently I'm a slow learner). Well guess who stood me up and never contacted me afterwards?
Yup he only asked me for the second time was so he could stand me up. So I read your story and it immediately brought me back to when I was 19 years old. It was a memorable story #1 because my mom was awesome for helping me not be his bitch and #2 for me being his bitch by believing he wanted to try it again.
So remember, your H is wanting to get a one up on you and the best thing you can do is live a happy life. If you have kids,mthen eventually it would be good if there could be some form of cohesive parenting.
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