Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I am not an overly religious person, but I believe God reached out to me tonight in a very bizarre way. My husband cheated with a woman he started up a business with. We have been trying to fix things and he promised there was not contact. He was heading back to work when he accidentially butt-dialed me while he was talking to one of his friends. The first thing I heard is his comment about how he would like to have sex with one of the girls he was training. Then the conversation turned to me and how he needs to figure out if the wants to be with me or his mistress (so apparently he is still in contact) and he does not want to stay with me as a "consolation prize."
I have been struggling over the last few days in my mind about what I want to do and if I could ever trust him again, and then this happened. I guess I should not ignore the signs. We have an 8-year old daughter and I have been really trying to work things out really for her as I know all the crap that comes with a divorce. I did not want this and was really trying, but how I can ignore this?
I had all kind of miracles happen to me as well. My H's affair had gone underground. He had me convinced it was over when, in fact, it was going strong. Had it not been for these miracles, it still would be going on!
Take this as a sign that it is time for you and your daughter to create a new life for yourselves.
Your H would have to have a total character transplant for him to change at this point. Move on
and don't look back!
BUT do it quietly. He started a business with this slut and the last thing you need is for them to have notice and start hiding assets - or worse!
Good luck to you! You are lucky - you found out the truth before you invested any more of your love in this jerk.
This is a clear sign, it had big arrows and neon light around it "get out, get out" it says.
I know how hard it is and of course you want to make things work for your kid, but you cant work on this alone, he's not committed, this is not going to work.
Based on his phone conversation I can also guarantee you his mistress is not the only, not the first and not the last one. he is already drooling over another girl while hes still involved with his mistress.
Keep your honor high, your daughter should see a strong mom who doesn't let herself be treated as a doormat. Kids grow up to be what they see if you let your husband cheat on you, which he clearly still is, that will teach your daughter the wrong morals.
Be strong, take this gift of clarity, most of us always wonder "is our partner still cheating" well you got the answer, yes he is. leave him, and get STD tested.
He is a curse upon anyone he has a relationship with. Time to lawyer up and make sure he pays his fair share in child support and alimony.
Show your daughter that this is not a healthy relationship and a husband should not treat his wife this way otherwise she will perpetuate it in her relationships.