Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
It is sad that there are many of us on here that welcomed and considered all of these OW as friends. If only we knew then what we know now. I, myself would have done anything for my "friend". Well, she sure did something for me now didn't she!!! How much they want to be like us and walk in our shoes. Then when it is over or found out, some are vengeful and attack while others want people to feel sorry for them. How sorry they are, whoo is me. They helped create the drama, they need to live with it. Loose a friend, they were never a friend, only a wolf in sheeps clothing trying to hang on or get back something they couldn't have. No matter how you look at it. Okay, that was my turn to vent some. And that was a nice verson.
I'm hoping every single day that I will run into her. She runs the other way if she sees any of my friends.
Months later after the affair was revealed he told me there was no massage that night. She took him to dinner, supposedly to pay him back for the massage he had already done, and when he took her back home she hit on him. When he rejected her advances she apologized and blamed her behavior on too much wine and chocolate and made him promise he would not tell me (their first little secret). I'm sure she did not want me to know because she knew full well that would the end of everything.
The seeds were planted at that point and they just became closer and closer until the affair started a couple of weeks later. She said she knew they would eventually break down. She told my H she had had her eye on him for years and knew they would be together eventually and that she was going to make him notice her one way or another. What a fucking bitch.
After the affair she eased her conscience by saying I was never her friend. I was just an acquaintance even though she had referred to me as a friend before. Then she went on to say that in "some circles" husbands of friends or acquaintances, and even ex-husbands of friends and acquaintances might be off limits but in "her world" everyone is fair game. I wish I had known that before. AND SHE IS MARRIED.
These are just the worst type of women. No one is off limits to them. There is no loyalty, no values . . . nothing. Just a gaping hole where their soul is supposed to be.
Months later after the affair was revealed he told me there was no massage that night. She took him to dinner, supposedly to pay him back for the massage he had already done, and when he took her back home she hit on him. When he rejected her advances she apologized and blamed her behavior on too much wine and chocolate and made him promise he would not tell me (their first little secret). I'm sure she did not want me to know because she knew full well that would be the end of everything.
The seeds were planted at that point and they just became closer and closer until the affair started a couple of weeks later. She said she knew they would eventually break down. She told my H she had had her eye on him for years and knew they would be together eventually and that she was going to make him notice her one way or another. What a fucking bitch.
After the affair she eased her conscience by saying I was never her friend. I was just an acquaintance even though she had referred to me as a friend for years. This is a woman who calls the post man and water delivery guy her friend, but I was just an acquaintance. Then she went on to say that in "some circles" husbands of friends and acquaintances, and even ex-husbands of friends and acquaintances, might be off limits but in "her world" everyone is fair game. I wish I had known that before. AND SHE IS MARRIED.
These are just the worst type of women. No one is off limits to them. There is no loyalty, no values . . . nothing. Just a gaping hole where their soul is supposed to be.
The whore came into my home and took advantage of my friendship. We welcomed her into our house because she was alone in this town, as her husband was in another state finishing his degree. While I was busy feeling sorry for her being alone, while I was trying to make her feel like a friend and even part of our family; she was moving in on my husband.
Her birthday is the day before mine and last year we went to a bar with our friends to celebrate and I made the evening all about her because her family did not do anything for her. I went out and bought decorations and even bought her a gift just from me. I made sure that everyone paid attention to her that night and didn't really acknowledge my birthday at all and she let me do it. She sat there and took it all in and let me be a friend to her and she was f---ing my husband. What kind of person can do that?
I believe that there are different kinds of OW and OM. Some do not know the MM or MW is married and I suppose they are victims too. Some know they are married, but they fall for the lines and the BS about how it's a bad marriage, and then there is the one like mine. Just a heartless, evil, bitch who is so concerned with her own happiness and what she wants that she will destroy a family to get it. She is a liar, a manipulator, and unbelievably selfish.
Even though it's only been a few weeks and he has answered all my questions and we are going to counseling (alone and separately), I still get so friggin angry and sad. What kind of a person is capable of such lies and deceit? How will I EVER trust him again???