Last Feb I caught my H with a coworker in her house. It was the 3rd time he had been in her house & also the 3rd time he had driven her to work because of the snow we had. Supposedly she didn't want for anything to get started because he was married; however she let him in her house at 12:30am. The story goes they had just kissed & he had been in the house no longer than a total of 45 min. As a lot of you have said - I haven't done well with this. I have anxiety attacks & depression. Now here is my question: He continues to work with her & said he was distancing himself from her. They no longer walk out together, eat together etc. The therapist told him in the beginning that he was to tell me about any conversations that didn't deal with work & he did willingly. However for the last month he has said nothing & when I ask he says same old thing or nothing much. I feel he is hiding something from me & he feels that I don't need to know everything. We are always arguing about this & it's going no where leaving me feeling more depressed & less trusting (if that's possible). I would let this go if I could but it's one of those things that is on my mind often. Sorry this is long. Thanks for any opinions.
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