Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
One of the best tools I have found in my own personal healing has been to focus on the NOW. What's bothering me in this moment - and not what's bothering me now and how it's related to every bad thing (huz's affair included) in the past.
A friend wrote a lovely blog post about loss and grief that highlighted this poignantly. She was actually writing about the death of a beloved pet and accepting new kittens into her house, but I think it applied to all kinds of grief, including infidelity and divorce.
The quote that struck me most:
"The trick is living in the now and accepting and giving all you can."
Perfect. Truly.
A friend wrote a lovely blog post about loss and grief that highlighted this poignantly. She was actually writing about the death of a beloved pet and accepting new kittens into her house, but I think it applied to all kinds of grief, including infidelity and divorce.
The quote that struck me most:
"The trick is living in the now and accepting and giving all you can."
Perfect. Truly.
Correct but too many "nows" is no future.
One must go forward with a a plan as the immedate doesn;t fuel the future.
Understanding the past and what happened is also important but thats more so like a fine wine - it takes time and as time goes by - more processing will take place - its not that time heals - its what you do with that time that can heal you as well.
Karma always rolls around and if you stay strong and be positive and surround yourself with good friends and people to talk to and express yourself - you will heal and you will forgive and you will move on and all things you wish for will occur.