Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
There have so many near misses for this boyfriend of mine. We live together. He seems to always have angels watching over him when it comes to me finding out about his infidelity.
The first sign was he printed out a page of email with all the headers. This was about four years ago. On the side I saw the folder Ashley Madison. I asked him about it and he said he was just curious because he saw something on a talk show about it. He wasn't married so I dismissed it .
Next was the time he was staying at his moms house in another time zone. His daughter back home had an emergency and his son had to call him at 3 am but he never came to the home phone. She claimed that she couldn't awake him because he had taken a sleeping pill that night. I find that hard to believe, He called back an hour later from his cell phone. Do sleeping pills really knock you out that much?
Lastly, I am out of town and last night he claims to have left to go to the gym at 745 at night and he came back at 10:30. The gym is 10 minutes away. The reason why I know his hours is because my daughter was there hanging around his son. They went in the hot tub and made cookies. She thought it was strange because he brought his dog. Who would leave their dog in the parking lot for 2 hours while you are at the gym. It was 85 degrees last night. She is old and has cancer.
When I called him out on the gym thing he said " he never scanned his card because no one was at the desk.
He is always gone and unaccountable. During the week he must see his "accountant" once a week and so on. He is self employed so can sleuth around. He even saw him on a Saturday all day and had lunch with him?
Lastly he had a wreck and he told me it occurred in the driveway. The accident report fell out of the garbage can when I took it out and " the wreck" was about four towns over from where we live.
He still texts and talks to his ex girlfriend who lives far away but she is a newlywed. He has two other female friends.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
The first sign was he printed out a page of email with all the headers. This was about four years ago. On the side I saw the folder Ashley Madison. I asked him about it and he said he was just curious because he saw something on a talk show about it. He wasn't married so I dismissed it .
Next was the time he was staying at his moms house in another time zone. His daughter back home had an emergency and his son had to call him at 3 am but he never came to the home phone. She claimed that she couldn't awake him because he had taken a sleeping pill that night. I find that hard to believe, He called back an hour later from his cell phone. Do sleeping pills really knock you out that much?
Lastly, I am out of town and last night he claims to have left to go to the gym at 745 at night and he came back at 10:30. The gym is 10 minutes away. The reason why I know his hours is because my daughter was there hanging around his son. They went in the hot tub and made cookies. She thought it was strange because he brought his dog. Who would leave their dog in the parking lot for 2 hours while you are at the gym. It was 85 degrees last night. She is old and has cancer.
When I called him out on the gym thing he said " he never scanned his card because no one was at the desk.
He is always gone and unaccountable. During the week he must see his "accountant" once a week and so on. He is self employed so can sleuth around. He even saw him on a Saturday all day and had lunch with him?
Lastly he had a wreck and he told me it occurred in the driveway. The accident report fell out of the garbage can when I took it out and " the wreck" was about four towns over from where we live.
He still texts and talks to his ex girlfriend who lives far away but she is a newlywed. He has two other female friends.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
But if u really want to know...hide a gps on his car.. Or if he has an iPhone look up places he frequently visits...
You already know the answer or you wouldn't be here...
Of course he's going to lie and deny. Most of them do.
I was quoting word for word from text messages I found from the other women (yes, plural) in my now-EX-husband's phone, and he STILL denied it. Until I had made him leave the house and refused to speak to him for 2 days, did he even admit it. And then, he only admitted what he knew that I definitely KNEW. That's been almost 2 years ago now, we are divorced, and he still never fully came clean about all I now know that he did. Again, many of them DON'T. Ever. Even when they've lost everything.
Is there really anything he could say that would explain all of this that would actually be the truth? No.
Unfortunately, that's your answer.
Since we're on the same verizon pan, I was able to get a list of the numbers she texted excessively. You can do a search on Facebook to see if the number is linked to an account.
Do you live together?
Perhaps say you're going on a girls trip or to visit a friend in another state. Hype it up like you're all excited, then get the PI To follow him.
Leaving the dog for two hours is a total lie, no animal lover would do that.
If you have access to his car, get a VAR. Google on line to find out more.
Do you have access to his phone?
I wish you well.