Please read my last post so your up to date to this point. After finding out my long term gf had run away on a planned family vacation with another guy, i had no contact for a week. She reaches out to  me on a friday, denying she ever left for another  man and gasslighting me ever chance she had. I left it alone and moved on. The following Thursday her father reaches out to me describing how she was  assaulted that monday, had her jaw broken in three places and had to undergo surgery. The whole time the family is giving me updates, undoublty raising my hopes. When she finally arrived home for a long recovery  (jaw wired and teeth shattered) I get a message from her desrcibing the ailments and then she goes on to defend  the new guy and how im such piece of crap. Well come to find out she had been out late night drinking with a different guy who supposidly drugged her and when she left was attacked. It baffles me to think that withen 10 days of our last in  person conversation that all of this happend and im left feeling completly set back. I put down my gaurd and boundries during that time and to have it all come back right in my face has been hard. She has shown no emotion or care that ive been trying to be supportive even though i was the ex. Im also confused as to why  the parents contacted me at all. I know the severity of this but i had given her a chance to commucate what she wanted to do with the countless responsibilities and items she left behind 3 days before her attack and now becuase she in thr midst of recover should I just put my life on hold. This whole this has been so heavy and any advice or perspectice would be greatly appriciate.