I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

How very exciting that you are pregnant again.

I hope he is not up to anything. But I have to say how important it is
to trust your gut.

Do a little spying and see what you come up with. You are going to be on pins and needles until you know for sure.

Good luck,

Okay, so he cheated once.

You caught him with a FB account, but he "claims" he didn't use it. Yeah... right.

Now, he freaks out when you touch his phone??? RED FLAG!

You'd think he'd want to be completely transparent to make the mother of his child feel better about taking his cheating @ss back.

How convenient of him- to blame your suspicions on your hormones.

Of course he regretted everything- he got caught.

I'd get a copy of the phone bill and see the text records.

Wonderous, I am sorry for your loss of your child in 2012 and for your current circumstances with a fricked up husband with a child on the way, For the record I didn't cheat on my wife pregnant or not so pleAse don't generalize as this is a tough site to be the betrayed spouse if you happen to be a man.

I think it may best for you to lay it out in the open that your hormones are screaming, you need to take care of yourself in order to care for the child that you carry and thT your turd of husband needs to help you carry that child anyway that he can including letting you see his phone whenever you want.
If he can't accommodate a request that small then you should think twice about what will happen when you reAlly need so bathing important from him .

Take care of yourself for your child and you

unfortunately only time will tell. i agree with everything Deli said. i am now in the process of getting a divorce from my CS. right before i found out i was pregnant with our son, my stbx waited until i was out of town on a family trip to tell me he "needed to think" about our relationship. We weren't married yet at that time, and at the time i thought he was just getting nervous about marriage, buying a house, starting a family, etc. i was already pregnant but neither of us knew yet. anyway, now that i look back, i think he may have cheated on me even then, or at least wanted to. he was "thinking about" whether or not to be w me for 2 weeks before i found out, and told him, i was pregnant. then he was back right away, supposedly came clean about talking to a couple girls "nothing more" etc etc. we married and had our baby. but since the birth of our son, he became MORE irresponsible, more detached, more self absorbed. and started looking around for possible affair partners, unbeknownst to me. he ended up cheating on me the first time that i know of about 5 months ago, and it happened more than once and with more than one woman before i found out. i have heard things, although admittedly from UNreliable sources, that he may have been calling me the b-word and the c-word as far as back before our wedding, and telling others he was just with me b/c that was the only way he could raise his kid right. whether that is true or not, i don't know. but now i believe it could have been true. i guess what i am saying is this: unfortunately i know first hand that some people (in my case a man, but women sometimes do it to) can justify lying to you even when you beg them not to. they don't want to be caught and have to fully face all of the consequences that go along w that. they want their child. they want to be fully in their child's life and do not like the prospect of having to co-parent from different houses. and/or they like the soft place to land, the stability of knowing someone's at home, but that won't stop these types of people from straying. they'll always be on the lookout for something else, it just may be periods in-between when they aren't finding this. i hope this isn't the case for you, but unfortunately it could be. it sounds so ridiculously familiar. so yes, check phone bills, monitor Facebook, whatever you need to do. if he's true-blue, he'll be transparent, patient, and kind about it. if he's not, well, sorry to say but those are red flags. like i say, unfortunately i know first hand. and i didn't believe it til i had to live through it. i shouldn't have been so quick to dismiss red flags and empty promises. if a liar wants to lie, they will.

It's not just pregnant women who get cheated on.

What did he do, in between his affair, then the fake account..and the current pregnancy, to earn your trust back?

He freaked out over you almost touching his phone. So I guess he certainly didn't agree to transparency after the first transgression(s) which is one of the biggest things a cheating spouse should do to try to make the relationship work. Even in a marriage where there has been no type of cheating being transparent is a good thing and there should be no reason to have secret accounts or unknown passwords etc, there should be no concern if they accidentally leave their facebook account open (well other than a funny hack post) or to leave their phone around "unprotected". I learned this the hard way I guess but now know that in a healthy relationship things are not guarded. My wife had all my passwords and I left my phone lying around anywhere, I had nothing to hide. I didn't even realize it then but looking back I see that she never parted with her phone or left it "unprotected", she had accounts that I didn't know existed, and I never knew the passwords to the accounts that I did know (never thought to care or ask)

If there had been no previous straying from the marriage in any way and you were constantly checking through his phone or computer or something then I could see there being a concern, a "why dont you trust me" type of concern, but given his past and his reaction I cant help but be concerned.

I am so sorry for the loss of your first baby and wish you all the best now. While I have unfortunately heard of other pregnant women being cheated on please do not think that that is the "norm" for guys. My wife was never more attractive to me than when she was pregnant with our first child and the last thing on my mind during that time was cheating on her. I was thinking about how we were starting our "family" and the next chapter of life together. I'm sure it does not feel this way to you or to any other woman that was cheated on while pregnant but I do think if the man really wants the baby and the "family" then he should be less likely to cheat at that point. When I hear these stories I cant help but find a bit of extra disgusts, above other cheaters, when they cheat on their pregnant partners.

I know that after losing a child and now being pregnant, you can't want to hear what you are hearing now on this thread. However a part of you knows that there is a strong possibility that he is hiding something.

Are you prepared to deal with the worst case scenario? Some people can deal better by rug sweeping for a few weeks or months until they fell strong enough to handle the fallout. Others would be more stressed not knowing.

I'm thinking you may need to get your support system in place, counselor, family, friends to help you if he is cheating. The pregnancy can suffer from stress and this will undoubtedly cause stress. Even the spying and confronting will be stressful regardless of what the outcome is .

This phone fear is a red flag and needs to be addressed sooner or later.

If he's doing this now, he'll only get worse once the diapers and night feedings come along and you are totally drained.

Better for it all to hit the fan now than later once the baby gets here.

My husband's affair started while we were trying to get pregnant with our second son. It lasted throughout my entire pregnancy until the baby was 3 months old and I caught him, I had no idea throughout and would never in a million years have suspected it of him.
He still tried to lie until I proved it.
You're not alone.
It sounds like there's something going on. Like everyone else has said, losing it over you touching his phone is a huge red flag. Why would it matter whether you looked at his phone if there weren't anything on it you couldn't see?
I don't necessarily think that men cheat more often when their partners are pregnant but I agree with CountyMounty in that those cheaters deserve a little extra contempt. Not only is it a terribly cruel thing to do when a woman is so vulnerable but they're actually putting their babies lives at risk through STD's, etc.
Stupid jerks...I'm still a little bitter obviously.
Back to your question though, you're not being hormonal, that's a valid reason to feel concerned even if he didn't have a past history, trust your instincts. Always.