Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Inam separating from my husband today. I don't feel like I have any close Christian friends tbatbincan talk to. My husband has cheated on me before and I found out. We seperated for about a month then tried again. I just found out that he has been talking (he says nothing else) to another woman. I have been told about 6 times over the 6 years we have been together that he has done this. I don't want a divorce but I can't stay with someone who cheats on me. He agreed to a seperation but today he is angry about it. I don't know where the anger comes from because he was the one who chose someone outside our marriage. He is good at convincing me I'm in the wrong. I need Christian advise on what to do. I want marriage to work but he has to change. I don't want to feel guilty for standing up for myself.
You will be better off with someone who loves and respects you, someone who honors his
vows.
Your H is angry? So what?! You are angry. You are hurt. You are sad.
I don't find Christian advice any different from any other good advice. I am sure you can find someone.
Good luck.
I am not sure if I am in a position to give you any advice. I've been where you are and I know so well of the pain and the hurt. Your world just turned upside down and you don't know what's real and what matters to you anymore. Emotionally, half of you is dead if not all. I've tried everything to stop the pain but nothing worked. I was raised Buddist so, I didn't know much about Jesus or God. But my sister and my mom have been following Christian faith so they introduced me to our Father in heaven, Jesus. I was in such deep despair and I reached out to our Lord. I began talking to him daily and felt like he's listening. I asked him or strength, direction, and gave the good Lord control of my life as I no longer want to be in charge of this painful story. I asked God to take the pain, hurt, anger, and sorrow and replace them with strength, peace, and love. I think to myself, if Jesus endured such agony, humiliation, and torture for us. What I am going through is so insignificant compared to what he had done for us. Every time I feel fear and despair or unloved, I think of him and his unfailing love for me. That gave me strength. I am not finally at peace. I have let go of my pain. I am learning forgive and continue loving my husband as he'd asked for a second chance. I am trying to walk in his path and continue to serve him. I know he has plans for me and in his love is our ultimate peace. I hope things will get better and if you let God take control of the mess, he will not let his daughter suffer any longer.