Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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crazymoon5150 10/29/2009

Ive been on this site for a while now ,it was not until my best friend began discussing that her husband suffers from NPD. I began to reasearch on the subject. my H and her H have similar qualities. Like me, and so many other posts I have read about trying understand why the people who are suppose to love us ,hurts us instead, and why they dont seem to be sorry or show any feeling, My husband has atleast 6 symptoms of the disoder it explains a helluva alot ,thought I would share.

LindaJean 10/30/2009

Narcissists are so hard to deal with. They know what to say to sound like a loving person but their actions usually don't match the words.

They rarely feel guilty about anything because they are entitled (in their own minds) to anything they want and those who object are just in the way - an irritant. Narcissists rarely feel true love for anyone.

Good luck - they are not fun people to deal with.

Lstecker 10/30/2009

I always struggled with my EX and could never understand why we had the problems that we had. It wasn't until we divorced and I had my kids in counseling that two different counselors told me that he was a narcissist - I did the research and HOLY SHIT...that was my EX. Made me realize how hopeless the whole thing really was, how he would never really change, and how glad I was to NOT have to deal with it anymore.

THe best to you... L~

trisha9054 10/30/2009

Mine too. 33 years we were married. He has every symptom that could be described in any book.

He made me his sanctuary from the outside world. He didn't socialize with his fellow workers. At least not after work. He sure socialized with plenty of women while he was working.

Because of my background and things that happened in my life I had no friends and have trouble making friends. I guess he rubbed off on me. So it was a very lonely life after the kids left.

He took his Narcissism so far that he felt entitled to marry someone else and expect me to stay with him.

I'm out and he is still trying to play his games and tricks on me. I think we will be back in court very soon.For the first time in my life I am learning to really hate someone. He's earned that hate.

deleted_user 10/30/2009

Oh yes my husband is one!!

A very dear friend on DS referred me to this site along with an awesome book.

WHY IS IT ALL ABOUT YOU? THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS OF NARCISSISM:

By: Sandy Hotchkiss

www.narcissisticabuse.com

Check it out!

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