When my husband and I started marriage counseling after I found out about his affair, I was told that I shouldn't make any decisions about divorce untill the dust has settled. I have to wonder though.. does it ever settle?? I'm still emotionally charged, two months later. Could it still be too soon to make a rational decision? Because not much has changed since I found out in October in regards to my anger and sadness and feelings of betrayal.
When is it okay to say enough is enough? This is a miserable existence for a marriage. I need peace in my heart. I'm feeling defeated and both mentally and physically exhausted.
If things have gone down increasingly in the bedroom... I mean maybe 1-2 times a month, when he is drinking... Is that a sign of infidelity, or even an interest in another woman? He is 31 and I am mid 20s. I dont understand.
Before I met my girlfriend, I have been seeing a woman who is very ideal for me. She is very fun to talk with. We share the same interest--- favorite books, food and music. Despite everything, she’s not ready for a serious relationship and decided to end whatever we had. We have been chatting for two years and ended it that way. Months after, I met this girl who is now my girlfriend. She’s...