My husband of 20+ had an affair and I am having a very hard time dealing with the pain this betrayal has caused.
We are trying to work on the relationship but it is slow painful going and I don't know if our relationship can survive.
It's quite a shock as I did not have any inkling that this was going on and I'm struggling to make sense of my life and marriage in the aftermath of receiving this painful information. It was not disclosed to me-I discovered the affair and I feel like my life and sense of confidence and security are permanently shattered.
I am struggling with a lot of feelings of hurt (devastation actually), anger, ambivalence, confusuon, grief-it's taking a big toll on my confidence and sense of self and sense of security. Strangely though he is the one who strayed he seems to feel a lot of anger at me and I'm finding this whole thing confusing and heartbreaking.
i feel like I need support of people who have been through or are going through this and am hoping to find a support group in NYC that I can join. I'm in counseling and it helps some but want a safe place to discuss with others who understand. If anyone know of any group like this that meets in NYC if be grateful for leads.
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