Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My GF was telling me about her ex (she has been divorced now for 5 years) when he first cheated on her and left the home this dude would stay out and drink most nights and would get home around 4 am never really wanted to work (would just stop working for 6 months at a time) shes the one who pushed him to stay employed this awesomeness dude never wanted to have kids she thought she could change him on that point he just didnt want the added responsibility wanted to go to bars and chill most of the time. Play cards with the dudes and drink and smoke.
Well after he left her for some younger chick he acted as if he was the happiest person on the planet able to stay out now till 8 am in the morning didnt have someone asking him questions freedom at last well after the divorce was finalized about 2 years after that freedom taste started to become sour - crappy this dude tries to crawl his way back to her to this day he tells her it was the biggest mistake he ever made and even says he should have had kids with her.
He can be seen around your local bar trying to hit on girls - O and he lives with his parents.
Well after he left her for some younger chick he acted as if he was the happiest person on the planet able to stay out now till 8 am in the morning didnt have someone asking him questions freedom at last well after the divorce was finalized about 2 years after that freedom taste started to become sour - crappy this dude tries to crawl his way back to her to this day he tells her it was the biggest mistake he ever made and even says he should have had kids with her.
He can be seen around your local bar trying to hit on girls - O and he lives with his parents.
You and I may consider them irresponsible in their lifestyle choices.
However, your GF chose him to date for a long period of time.
She knew how he was early in the process and chose to stay with him.
The question you may want to ask is.....what does this say about her?
Shes is stubborn and she admits that - also, her father told her - if you get married you only do it once - there is no "retake"- he told her all of this when she was engaged. She really really looked up to her father.
She wanted out of the marriage but she was a daddies girl and he would have been majorily disappointed and he would remind her what he told her. (Her father passed away 3 years ago) - he told her before she got married that you get married once and you work things out. She loved her father a lot and really looked up to him and always would listen to him.
Once the dude cheated on her - her father understood. But yes she is stubborn and can be hard headed but that can be good and bad.
if she sees something she aims for it - and she tries her hardest - that has gotten her professionally in a very good place. She now looks back and knows she could never had changed her ex and she should have never had married him because they werent a good match - hindsight is always 20/20 - she thought she could change him.
It is what it is but she doesnt hold any regrets.
Also, you have to turn into a real "loser" to get rid of her. That is good to know. You can have minor flaws, or make minor ooops and you know she won't bail on the first sign of trouble.
She sounds like a keeper to me!