His mom came over today to drop the baby back off. She's leaving to go to Houston tomorrow for a family members surgery and won't e able to keep the baby the entire weekend. I'm grateful she kept him Thursday and Friday. I called her and told her I had something on my mind and would burst if I didn't get it out. She came over and we talked although I still don't have the answers I was looking for. I asked her does HE love his son or does he thinks he's a toy? She stated of course he loves him. She stated that he calls every night and when he does he ask where he is, if she's seen him, how much he misses him, and ask her to take pics and send them to him. NO PITY FOR THE SIMPLE-MINDED SOB!!! Then I asked, "Has he said ANYTHING to you about why he would get another person pregnant only a few months after I left him". She stated that he came over one day and said the girl was pregnant. That they were living together and she just came up pregnant. She said she then told him that it takes two and asked what does her mother think seeing as she's so young. "Why her mother doesn't encourage her to go to school or get a job in lieu of getting pregnant. She said he mentioned something about when she told him she was to far along to get an abortion. BULL- MALARKY!!!! HOW ABOUT USING A DARN CONDOM AND AN ABORTION WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN NECESSARY. I told his mother that I am extremely hurt and can ONLY think that we were a farce. I MEANT NOTHING. She said she has no idea, that he really doesn't talk to her about his relationships. She said SHE was the one who had to tell his father cause he knew what his father would say and wasn't going to tell him. I asked what was his father's response and she said he was mad with him. He asked why he would do such a thing when his my son isn't even a year old...guess they had this discussion a while back. She didn't tell me what Fred's reply was, but that his father called her and said, "Fred is on his own". "He keeps having babies without a means of supporting them. That he sends money every week for my son, but he is on his own with the new baby. I don't see them doing that. Regardless it's still their grand-baby. I told her that I am truly hurt by the continuous disregard for my feelings on his part. I asked her if he planned on marrying this girl and she said she doesn't know cause he won't talk about it. I told her that..he will grow up one day and realize how poorly he treated me. And when he does...HE CANNOT SAY SORRY...NEVER. I won't hear it and I won't accept it. I despise him with great intensity. I mean not only does he cheat and totally make me look the damn fool to my entire community, family, and friends...but he pours acid into my wounds by having unprotected sex with the first willing dummy and produces a child with little regard for the current child....I LOATHE HIM!!! He doesn't realize this and I imagine that's why I can't stop crying...but he is officially DEAD to me.