I know the feeling all too well. The 1st time I knew he was stepping out was when I was pregnant with our first child. Fast forward to now, 15 years later. There have been more women than I could even attempt to count including my son's best friend's mom. I wish I could say he will change, but based on my experience it won't. I even quit trying to find out and just looked the other way. Finally I can't live this way and when physical abuse along with the emotional abuse and infidelity, it became too much. He's now concocted a whole story about me being on drugs in an attempt to get custody of our children who I have protected from all the wrong he has done. I am ill at how I allowed myself to believe I didn't deserve better. Believe me: trust your gut. It is usually right and you deserve better.

I am sorry that happened to you. At least in my situation, there are no kids involved. I just cant understand how someone who supposedly "loves" you can do this.

I k ow. The pain is truly indescribable. It cuts deep. Leaves you numb. Please believe you are worth more than settling. Counseling could be an option. If he is remorseful.

He has an addiction. Get out while you can. You don’t have children with this person. RUN!

I agree - you do not have a marriage.
Make a plan, get your assets together, and ditch this creep!

Accounts in over 50 sites takes A LOT off effort to even open up a profile but to continually maintain them. I wonder if these sites require membership fees. If so, that's taking away from your family income source also.

Reaching out to people can be done as easily as Facebook-ing or Skype-ing. I know it's how my stepdaughter reaches out to men for sex. It always starts out with conversations, then showing themselves naked, then meeting for sex. She can find a 'date' anywhere she goes on vacation. There's nothing we can do about it.

You just need to decide if this is acceptable to you or move on.

My concern more would be what STD is he potentially bringing home to you. I would not trust him unless he got tested and you can see the results personally. Even then, whose to say, next time he won't care.

I know how you feel. I'm going through the same thing right now. Not only does he joined all those (cheating on your spouse) websites but also hooked up with escort services. Been with him for 25 yrs and have 3 kids together. Can't even described how bad I feel. Don't even want to get up in the morning.

I recently found out that my wife of 14 years de idea to go on line and meet men. She has gone so far as to hook up with at least 2 of these men. I am trying to process and remember that at some point we loved each other. We are discussing our next steps. But we are financially tied up with debts and she is getting ready to have surgery. I don't want her to suffer. But, we have discussed this and are trying to determine the best way for us to go, so I can sympathize.

Take some time off and Get counseling.