I have been a member here for years. My now EX CS was who helped me move beyond my ex of 12 yrs. My ex of 12 years cheated repeatedly and I finally got the strength to leave. I get with my now current CS. We have been together 2 yrs. The length of time I have been gone from here. We have a BEAUTIFUL baby boy who is now 6 mths. However when he was 3 mths. I noticed the father being distant. Hanging out more, coming home later. I tried talking to him and reminding him that we were NEW parents. That he needed to be home more for me and the baby. Well it started off with snide remarks, then our outings were seized him using us having a new baby as the excuse. Strange things begin to happen. I noticed a female neighbor constantly watching me whenever she was outside. I really didn't pay it much attention because I USUALLY GET THAT FROM INSECURE WOMEN. I'm far from ugly and have my stuff together. Well then my current CS changed, he's not the person I grew to love. He started being mean, making snide remarks, ripping and running the streets all day only coming home when I would complain. One day he got BALLSY and called me a whore in so many words without QUITE saying it...SO I KICKED HIM OUT. I thought he was cheating and DISRESPECTING ME was the first sign. So I kick him out with the hopes that he will realize what he is ABOUT to lose and come home being his normal self. 2 weeks went by, no calls, no texts AND WE HAVE A NEWBORN SON, so I called him. Oh talk about NAAAAAASTY. Now that's ANOTHER SIGN..he hadn't talked to me in 2 wks and YET he's being nasty? He said something about if I was big and bad enough to put him out, GO GANGSTA!!! GO ALL THE WAY and hung up in my face. After I cried for a while (I KNEW WHAT TIME IT WAS...THE WRITING IS ON THE WALL), so I decided to google search his name and nickname and WHAM!!!! His face-book page..the last time we looked @ our face-book pages we were telling family & friends that WE WERE PREGNANT, updating them about doctor visits, how far along I was, etc. YOU GET THE DRIFT...the face-book was ONLY FOR FAMILY & FRIENDS. I had 8 people...he had about 10. WELL THE NEW & IMPROVED FB PAGE HE HAD had over 120 FEMALE friends!! He was listed as SINGLE!!! WHERE THE HELL WAS I WHEN ALL THIS WAS TAKING PLACE....OH YEAH CARRYING HIS CHILD!!! So a light-bulb clicks on and I check his email. BINGO!!!!!!! Email after email from woman after woman after woman!!! I'm really good with reading in between lines and from reading the numerous emails there are a few FACTS that WILL NOT GO IGNORED. 1) He sent the women friend request= he went after them, 2.) he has hooked up with a few, 3.) He has had me around one of these HOES without my knowledge of who she was. THEN I FOUND THE EMAIL OF ALL EMAILS. It was a total of 3 or 4 emails. BETWEEN HIM AND THE LITTLE GIRL DOWNSTAIRS (the one who was always looking @ me.......NOW I KNOW THE REAL REASON WHY!!!!) So now let's recap....This a$$hole came into my life after I found out my ex of 12 years cheated, he WAS WITH ME THROUGH EVERYTHING...HE KNOWS HE NOT ONLY CHEATED REPEATEDLY..BUT HE ALSO KNOWS HE CHEATED WITH A NEIGHBOR...HE WAS WITH ME WHEN MY EX SUED ME...RIGHT NEXT TO ME IN COURT!!!! So he turns around 2 yrs later AFTER I give birth to the CHILD HE BEGGED FOR...AFTER I LOST MY FIRST HOME TO A FORECLOSURE CAUSE HE CAN'T FIND WORK, AFTER I SACRIFICED SO MUCH FOR HIM, he MAKES A CONSCIENCE DECISION to start dealing with the chick that lives DIRECTLY BELOW ME.!!!? THIS IS PART 1 of the 2011 HOEBAG SAGA....It gets even better.....STAYED TUNED!