I am so sorry you are going through this. That cashier's comment is very strange , but I would try not to dwell on it. That is not to say that you believe your husband blindly either.

Carry on with your journey , but do keep your eyes open. Trust is earned and once broken needs to be re gained. So if you are not able to trust your husband fully yet, that is completely acceptable. He needs to take steps to regain your trust and rebuild the marriage.

There is no magic ball to predict the future or guarantee that your husband won't cheat again, but if you have made the decision to stay in the marriage, you have to work towards trusting him again. It will happen in time. And now that you are wiser to the signs of infidelity, you can walk away if you get a sniff of anything wrong. All the very best.

She stuck her neck out; she knows something.

Trust your instincts. I think you should go back to the store and talk with her. I would not tell him.
If he's cheating again or doing anything suspect, it's time to call it quits. Enough is enough.

If you get nothing out of her, I'd follow her advice and keep your eyes open. Where there's smoke, there's fire.

It is not up to you to work on trust issues. He broke the marriage, he has to fix it. He has to earn your trust. In the meantime, I'd be interviewing lawyers.

I agree with Storm, I would go back to the store and go up to her and ask if she can take a break to talk to you. I think if you are able to get her somewhere private, she'll tell you what she knows, and information is power, and you won't be able to move on until you know.

You may have to make a few attempts to find her, but something tells me it will be worth it. If she doesn't know specifically, then she's probably heard through a friend or knows someone who knows him and what he's up to. People don't say things like, "he's not right" for no reason. Act upon this but don't tell him, this isn't for his ears, this is for yours for now and don't bring it up to him again.

Wishing you well.

I agree with Storm also and second the statement about how working on trust issues is not your job. He caused the trust issues. You have zippity-doo-dah to do with that. That's all on him. If he wants you, he'll do whatever it takes. If he even has the nerve to tell you that YOU need to work on YOUR trust issues, then he's not taking responsibility for his actions.

I would also go back to that store. I WISH that someone would have given me a heads up about my husband. For her to do that is a gift. Take it. And don't tell your husband anything about it. That would be like tipping off the drug dealer that a bust is about to go down.

Find out what she knows. It may have happened prior to September. Cheaters rarely change their colors, some do but rarely, and he might be carrying over his reputation from before he got caught.

Yes it should be over if he does it again.

I used to hate it when it seemed everyone knew except me.

Thank you to everyone who cared enough to respond to my post. This was my first post and I appreciated the support I received during a tough time. Here's the follow-up. I called and spoke to the cashier the next day. I reminded her who I was then asked her if she knew my husband or saw him somewhere and she said no. She said she didn't mean to make me worry. She said God spoke to her and told her to tell me to keep my eyes open and pay attention. She said He didn't tell her anything else. She was just being obedient to what He said. I said thank you and that was it.
Here is something else that I didn't say that I didn't think was important at the time. When I first met her I noticed she had a Carribean accent so I asked her where she was from. She said she was from Alabama and I told her she sounded like she was from an Island, she said everyone says that. So basically she had a fake accent. Also when I was leaving her register she gave me this really weird/intense look. When me and my husband walked out he said she was staring at me and he was looking at her like what's up and she smiled at him. So I'm leaving that one alone. She didn't have anything. I believe in the gift of prophesy but I don't think she has it. Too vague.

She's lying to you; this is why I recommended you go in and speak to her in person, so you can see her facial reactions.

"God spoke to her," and "He told me something," –oh please, don't be so naive, she most certainly knows your husband, or knows of him, and that's even worse, because his reputation precedes him.

"God spoke to her and told her to tell you to keep your eyes open and pay attention," – on what planet? God doesn't speak to people, and certainly not to grocery store cashiers about customers going through their checkout.

I don't think she faked the accent, she was responding to your rudeness of asking if she was from the islands. It's rude to ask someone where they're from. Your intentions may have been earnest but it's considered inconsiderate to ask someone where they're from just because they have an accent, a different look or skin tone.