Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So, my spouse and I finally had a conversation. He started it by copping to the lies, quitting his job, and drugs. He did not offer any information, even upon my prompting- 2 times- if there was anything else he wanted/needed to tell me. I told him I knew about the affair. He admitted it and apologized. He took full responsibility...mostly. I did not tell him about my recent meeting with an attorney. I attempted to separate. I made it 3 hours. Then I caved. Anyway, he attended his first recovery meeting last night. My issue is--sometimes I want a divorce and sometimes I want to stick it out and work on things. How do you know what you really want? I don't want to give up too soon, especially since he's the one who took initiative to make changes and is trying to get himself various forms of help. But, I also don't want to waste my time and find myself here again. Any helpful advice?
If you don't do 1.2.3. I am filing for divorce.. Do not threaten! Do what you say and say what you do.
Don't overwhelm him all at once, give him 3 things at a time once he does that consistently l, then say now you have to do 4,5,6...
If he doesn't hold up his end you will have to walk away.. Or you will be right back where you started from