So, my spouse and I finally had a conversation. He started it by copping to the lies, quitting his job, and drugs. He did not offer any information, even upon my prompting- 2 times- if there was anything else he wanted/needed to tell me. I told him I knew about the affair. He admitted it and apologized. He took full responsibility...mostly. I did not tell him about my recent meeting with an attorney. I attempted to separate. I made it 3 hours. Then I caved. Anyway, he attended his first recovery meeting last night. My issue is--sometimes I want a divorce and sometimes I want to stick it out and work on things. How do you know what you really want? I don't want to give up too soon, especially since he's the one who took initiative to make changes and is trying to get himself various forms of help. But, I also don't want to waste my time and find myself here again. Any helpful advice?
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