Hello all..finally decided I had to join a support group or lose my mind. Found out in June (on my birthday no less) that my hubby had been cheating. Fought, cried, got closer, had honeymoon period etc. Found out two weeks ago that he's cheating again - with the same woman. Tried confronting, he lied, denied, and projected. I've decided on divorce. My problem is that I'm a stay at home mom with very few resources and my H doesn't make much money. If I can stick it out a year, I can save enough for several months of living expenses, plus both kids will be in school full time so I can get a job without paying for day care. That's the plan anyway...but I'm having a very hard time with obsessive thoughts about how much I hate him, all the things I wish I could say to him, what he's doing at this exact moment, etc. etc. etc. If I leave now, it will be almost impossible for me to financially survive. How do I get my mind off him and get through the following year??? How do you turn off your head? Any and all advice is welcome!!!!
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