I've been married for 16 years and was devastated 2 1/2 years ago when my husband revealed his long standing affair with his co-worker. That slut knew me and my children and knew we were happily married but was envious and set out on destroying us. I never thought this would happen to us but it did. To add to the devastation in the same sentence as, "honey I've been having an affair "was also, "and by the way she's pregnant too". My heart was broken and has been broken since. Despite couples counseling and individual counseling I find myself so bitter, rageful and jealous of the fact that they share a child together. He insists on helping her raise this child and which involves going to her home, bringing the child to our home, and daily phone calls. For me it feels like the affair continues and I cant move on. Is there anyone out there that has experienced a similiar situation with words of advice or outcomes? I just dont think I have the strength to deal with this and my children see me suffer every day. Am I being selfish that I want him to walk away from her and this child?
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