Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
cbazan
People kept telling me that with his maturity level he would have more kids. I guess deep down I knew eventually he would, but this soon? I left him in January. Guess that's my answer when I wondered if he missed me, our family, and what I thought I had. It hurts. Then to add insult to injury he posted her as his fiance on his FB page....just like he did me. A friend of mine came across it and called me to tell me. He changed his screen-name and I could see her photo but that was all i could see. My friend forwarded me the FB page. This entire fiasco has been nothing but a disaster. The chick he cheated on me with downstairs moved out WITH HER MAN. While I'm left to sit here and simmer in hurt, anger, and tears. I haven't even called him in months, don't think about him too much anymore, but finding that out hurt nonetheless. So I called his mother and asked why she didn't tell me. I know why cause I hadn't put his ass on child support and THEY THOUGHT they would keep it that way...NOT!!!! I filed online last night and then got up at the crack of dawn..drove past his house to make sure I had the proper address and then went to the child support office and refiled in person. I even gave the driving directions to that sob house. I mean what type of DEMONIC person practically forces someone into having a child for them, only to cheat and get put out and then turn around before a years end and gets another woman pregnant. So once I said what I had to say to his mother and gave her conniving ass the dial tone, she called him, told him and he text me. Stating if I don't put him on child support he will transfer the lights that are in his name here to my new apt (I got evicted thanks to my room-mate who couldn't pay his portion on the rent since he's been here (several months) and I am moving like within a week or two. He says if I place him on child support then he will not transfer lights. I told him cut the MF off. If you have no qualms about doing that NEITHER DO I. Cause regardless of the storm I seem to be facing I know there is a GOD who doesn't like seeds of evil sown and although I am hurting a bit. I can see a light and a ray of sunshine trying to break its way thru at the head of the storm. we were at each others throats via text..me saying the same old thing, "you could have just left in lieu of blantantly disrespecting me through-out the community/building the way you did. He said the same thing, "he didn't do anything", that I just had a bad attitude that he couldn't deal with. He really feels comfortable with that lie doesn't he? I mean does he really think anyone would put up with being called whores when he was the hoe? Was I supposed to remain silent, nonchalant, and submissive when he tried to bed three women in my bldg. You would think he would be grateful that I didn't crack his ass across the skull with a two-by-four. Then eventually the little girl who is pregnant texts me from his phone telling me to stop texting him, that it's over, he's not mine anymore, and why should I care if anyone is pregnant. I told that bitch to go sit her simple-minded young ass down, and if wanted to text his ass every thirty seconds I can. I told her further more he texted me, I don't make a habit of dealing with cheating community penis, that he is NOW her problem. I also threw in the fact that she isn't very pretty and a bit on the fat side, so the pregnancy will guarantee he'll cheat on her ass before she swells to eight months. I told her your the sixth FB fiance so stop feeling yourself. I'm totally done. I moving and I won't tell his mother where, she can meet me to pick up/drop off baby. I'm thinking about changing my number, I'll call her private when I need her ass to baby sit. And once I get this job I'm trying to land so that I will be financially secure on my own. I will place baby in a good day care and the time spent with them will be limited. I have officially erased every single solitary email from the women on face book, anything regarding him and removed all his texts. He sent a text saying hopefully one day we can be civilized with each other and talk about how we plan to raise the baby. Sometimes with him...sometimes with me. LOL...he's serious about that too huh? My plan is to leave the damn state on his ass and he can visit once he finds out where I'm at. I have no more patience for stupidity and betrayal. And for the dumb young girl he's dealing with. She has no idea..he did me the exact same way. Placed our status on fB and while I never checked, he was there meeting all kinds of women and had changed engaged to single. Her day is just around the bend....dumb ass. You would think she would wonder why I left him with a newborn to care for. I told her ass, "Great just what the world needs, another stupid black bitch gong-ho for a hoe. NOT!!!
This sucks, it must be so damn painful no matter how many ways you look at it. But do try to focus on the fact that this is more proof that you made the right decision for yourself and your family. He's not a husband, or a father, he's a sperm donor. You ALL deserve better than than. Even his dumb little flavor of the month deserves better. Shame she doesn't know it, yet.
Sending strength and support,
CR64
I do believe once he's required to pay child support, he is entitled to see the baby. And it could bring ya down,if he tried to get custody, based on the fact that you moved out of state, without informing him.
Learn the laws, and how it works, just to be sure!
Get your child support and tell him to take his threats and shove them right up his ass.
God bless...L~