Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hey everyone,
First time post as well as first time seeking help.
Like everyone seeking support on here my relationship with my now ex partner has issues that need attending to which is what brings me here.
It is hard for me to put into words not only my emotions but just admitting to the wrong I have done,
Previously in our relationship I had made the terrible mistake of emotionaly cheating on my partner the reasons for which do not matter as I have taken soul responsibility for my actions and the consequences, we attempted to work things out (this only seemed to be me trying to make up for what I had done and being constantly abused and resented for what I had done). Recently I found myself trying to start a conversation that obviously presented as having a deeper meaning than what I was actually saying, after discovering these messages my then partner decided it would be better to break up(I don’t blame her, these events also took place earlier today), shortly after I found myself not only extremely sad but disappointed not only in myself but in the fact that I could hurt her again! I know she means the world to me which is ironic and contradicting after I have hurt her emotionally so many times. I’m not entirely sure what I’m asking or what I am hoping to get out of this but all advice and help is greatly appreciated.
I'm sorry to say but u really did bad. If you cheat on ur partner and she somehow has the most gebetiys and forgiving heart in the world and gives you a second chance than you grab that chance with both hands and crawl through the dust to fix your mistakes and earn her respect and trust again. Instead you hurt on het again. Sge broke up. So will I if my partner would ever betray my tryst afain after being recovering from cheating. She broke up leave her alone. You can't live her because if you love soneone you don't hurt tgat person. Tgats the biggest mistake cheaters make they think they love their partner but truly don't know wgat live is.
My advice get help as in counseling to fix ur issue cause if you don't you will just cheat and hurt ur future girlfriends as you hurt ur ex. Good luck
As heartache mentioned you don't understand what love is.
When you actually love someone, you love then self sacrificially.
While we are all flawed humans, the distance between cheating to loving someone is quite far.
You say you love her, but how can you when you don't understand what love is?