Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I think the best thing you can do is find a good network around you so that you are less lonely, and talk to them about the scared feelings. An IC can be invaluable too. Exercise, sign up for all those activities you always wanted to try, travel to places that he never wanted to go, rearrange the furniture! Be good to yourself. Don't try to rush through the pain. Experience it, cry about it, then release it.
Best wishes! You are a strong lady and he didn't deserve you!
sending support
Seriously, seeing as you know you are done and have had enough, just know that the next few months will be hard. they will be difficult. they will hurt...and you may fall on your face...but you will always get back up.
No storm last forever. It just can't.
...that...and chocolate...
Much love, L~