If you got facebook you can write her name in the search bar and see if her profile is open.If you not got fb i dont think you can look at profiles.Sometimes its a good idea not to look as what u can find can hurt more.Depends on what info u need if its to see if your hubby is having a affair then u may need to sign to fb yourself.But not all profiles are open.If the ow got her profile set to friends only then u wont be able to see anything.Good luck xx

Sometimes people in the same network can see each other's profiles. So if you can determine what network they belong to (ie Toronto, on) and set your network the same you may be able to view it.

Thats true hurryuplife i forgot about that.Lol.

But your caution about finding things out that you might not want to know is very important. Ahhhh, if only I had kept the lid on some of those boxes in my ex's life.

Yes, it can get very addicting. I've been stalking my OW on FB for nearly a year. I don't advice it.

I'm always comparing myself to her. It's almost like I'm having an affair with her now.

Trust me, it's for the best, not the know what's going on in her life.

Please be careful about obsessing over this.

If you are looking for proof of an affair, that's one thing, but if you are simply obsessing and stewing, you might want to think about counseling.

And I say this as someone who has gone through it....

Take care and good luck!

Don't do it. I can't help myself. I look at the OW page everyday several times. Initially, I thought she was absolutely disgusting but I have started to think she is prettier and thinner than I am. I am to the point that I need to get help because that is all I focus on. Save yourself the heartache.

Thank you all for the comments. I think that it is very wise to just stop looking . H currently gives me no reason at the current time that it still is goin on , I just find things out that trigger the hurt over and over.

chewdy - this would just be ANOTHER trigger for you to have to deal with. trust me! you're better off not being able to see her wall!

I'm brand new here, but since finding out about my husband's FB "affairs", I am making myself miserable by stalking the pages of these women. Don't do that to yourself.

I know very little about OW. I don't even know what she looks like. I know where she lives and all, but I have'nt gone there. However my curiosity is overwhelming. Are you all saying it for the better not to know? Your advice could help me.

DON'T LOOK!!!!!! It IS just another trigger that will keep hurting you in the long run....I wish I never looked at the OW's MySpace...those images haunt me every day. I also made sure to delete all of my STBX's family from my Facebook friends list so that I do not have to see them celebrating the baby the OW bore with my H's seed...better to just let the curiosity be the most you have to deal with, no matter how strong that feeling is. I find it best to just do something else in place of hurting myself through the internet snooping! Read a book or shop online or something!

Previous poster is right. There is something inside that changes, when you can associate a face with this person who intruded into your marriage. I am filled with such rage towards this woman, I can hardly see straight. The things she did with my H! And she wants to post bright & happy things on her FB account about loving God, etc???? I want to just kick her teeth in.

Ya I could beat the OW within an inch of her life, but it's not worth the jail time.