First off,get the hell off this forum. Everyone here has been betrayed. Second, get some therapy. You're a repeat cheater. You need to understand why you lack character and have poor communication skills. While revenge cheating is in no way productive, I can't help but cyber high five your wife. You'll get no sympathy here.

Magola

Im not looking for sympathy im looking for help i dont put all my dirt out but fuck you now i know why you got cheated on

You're looking for help? Oh I'm sorry! Do women who say what they want deserve to get cheated on? Or is it women that tell the truth? Or perhaps it's when you don't like what they say? Oy. Get a clue asshole.

Please understand that this support forum is for those who have been cheated on so you might not get the best advice here. There might be a good forum for you and counseling would be a start but please appreciate what those here are going through and we are not here to advise the partner who has cheated

You got a taste of your own medicine. How does it feel now?

Don't know what to Do? Of course you know what to do you just don't want to hear it! You had numerous affairs including her best friend wth is wrong with you how on earth can you do that to someone anyone especially someone you supposedly care for. The only right thing to do is leave this poor women alone she deserves much better than you and you know that you just don't want to hear it.
Get therapy and built some morals and empathy.
Omg you seem surprised she can't believe/trust you seriously dude you have no clue what you did to her do you. If you truly want to better yourself. Start reading the internet about what trauma cheating caused to the betrayed partner. read untill you can't stop crying and puking about what you have done to her. But I'm sure you don't want to hear this advice either

And by the way what a disgusting and disrespectful thing to say to Magola above it clearly shows your character unbelievable. You ate clueless. Get off here. We help renorsefull cheaters if they are humble and need advice. You are not remorsefull at all. That reaction to Magola should get you kicked of this website it's disgusting

I agree heartache5. I wanted to say something yesterday but I had to calm down first. You said it perfectly. The OP seems to have the mentality of a child and has some serious growing up to do.

Yes heartache5 you said it best. That's what I meant to say! However, it seemed to me he had zero remorse and almost like he was looking for advice on how to dupe his lady some more. So, yes I was kind of a jerk, but his post just made me so upset.

A post like that upsets all of us betrayed people. And his comment to you made me very mad. Don't let this ass get to you. And he doesn't even get that his actions upsets people including his own girlfriend

Lostconfused, you should post in the Cheaters Anonymous forum.

Everyone else, you have the ability to report inappropriate content to Daily Strength. There is a triangle next to the date on each reply and next to the heart button on each original post. Click on it and you can select ignore or report. If you decide to report, you need to tab back and forth a bit as it helps to include the url when you complete the form and you need to cite the member's name correctly. I have reported offensive and hurtful content from others (it has only been cheaters so far, posting their slop over here). I have also reported every troll and spammer I come across here (example: email the wonderful Dr Odgu at gmaildotcom and he will make a magical potion to cure your cheater and make them fall in love with you) ROTFLMAO. You can also block posts from members that you don't wish to see. So, there are options but I totally get it that once triggered, there is no getting that horse back in the barn. These cheaters have no idea at all what they say here is hurtful and can trigger many. The lack empathy (duh) and just don't care about anyone but themselves. But we already knew that :-/