Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So oddly enough my husband has respected the fact that I want to be left alone..
but not the OW.
She is now texting me every couple of days to see how I am doing.. and if I am okay...
It makes me uncomfortable... she apologized for ruining my marriage and causing me pain... and asks me questions like what did I have for dinner.. and then how often did me and my husband have sex while they were together...
Why does it matter? Why won't she leave me alone? I am a nice person and i know she is hurting too because she found out my husband was seeing me and her at the same time and telling us both lies... but he is sleeping at her place.. and living with her.. so why does she need to talk to me?
It costs $36 to change my cell phone number... or I could block her number but she could still call me from another line... I have my counseling appointment tomorrow and was going to ask my counselor.. I just changed my number in February for calls from family who wouldn't just leave me alone and let me heal... and it took a long time to get every account updated with the new number... but I guess it looks like I will be doing it all again...
Any thoughts? I should change my number right?
but not the OW.
She is now texting me every couple of days to see how I am doing.. and if I am okay...
It makes me uncomfortable... she apologized for ruining my marriage and causing me pain... and asks me questions like what did I have for dinner.. and then how often did me and my husband have sex while they were together...
Why does it matter? Why won't she leave me alone? I am a nice person and i know she is hurting too because she found out my husband was seeing me and her at the same time and telling us both lies... but he is sleeping at her place.. and living with her.. so why does she need to talk to me?
It costs $36 to change my cell phone number... or I could block her number but she could still call me from another line... I have my counseling appointment tomorrow and was going to ask my counselor.. I just changed my number in February for calls from family who wouldn't just leave me alone and let me heal... and it took a long time to get every account updated with the new number... but I guess it looks like I will be doing it all again...
Any thoughts? I should change my number right?
I think it's very strange she is trying to "bud" you right now. And, he's living with her? Damn, after you two confronted him, I thought she might have a little more common sense than that.
But, over all, if it costs 36 dollars, then I would do it. YOU are the most important thing in your life, so you need to protect yourself from negativity.
However, if he is still living with her, can you be sure that she will not be able to get the new number from him? Of course this only applies if you give your new number to him. I wouldn't want to see you change your number just to do it again after she gets it from your husband. It may be better to just block the number for now and delete the strange numbers.
He can email me or call my work phone, or work cell for that matter if he needs to really get ahold of me.
I am leaning towards changing my number and will probably do so today.
From what I understand your H is still with the OW? If so, then neither one of them need your number....move on you are too cute to care at this point!!!
I love that Sprint lets you change your number every 3 months for free... AT&T charges me $36 everytime... I should see if I can cancel my contract and just switch to Sprint.. I don't really need an iphone anyway...
And so far the OW has left me alone, she only bugs me when she is at work- probably to see if my husband is with me... I just ignore it...
I got paid today though... so changing number for sure!
On another note.. I went to my first counseling appointment today, its my third counselor and I LOVE HER! She is not pushing me to make any decisions that I don't want to make and is totally focused on me and my future.. I feel so relieved... to not have anxiety walking out of a therapy appointment is just a breathe of fresh air..
And wow, when I describe my husband to her-- I have to admit-- why do i want this guy? So here is the new shocker guys-- he and OW now smoke pot together ALL THE TIME... so um, he loses his military pay next month, how does he expect to get a job if he won't be able to pass the drug test? And so what if he is combat wounded and has PTSD, why would he ever think that sitting around smoking pot all day would lead to a good thing? Now he is so unappealing... I am not really missing him...
Yeah I miss my old husband.. the one who had dreams and aspirations and was faithful...
but this new guy... hell, where do I sign?