My H is a self proclaimed “social butterfly” his personality comes off very flirty with everyone he meets..we’ve had several issues with social media (i.e. inappropriate comments, conversations, and general “flirting” with other women) the first issue was a FaceTime “session” with his ex that i was unaware of for about 6 months until she threatened to tell me so he finally did. He swore it just happened and it didn’t mean anything. My trust was completely shattered but i agreed to forgive and rebuild trust, but he doesn’t understand the “rebuild” part. After gut feelings, i would go thru his messages and always find something concerning and it always fell on me for “snooping” and not trusting him like i was suppose to, like all of that trust was suppose to magically come back in a matter of weeks. The most recent issue was supposedly more innocent but happened with someone he had a history with a LONG time ago.
He says he doesn’t know why he said any of those things, there was no reason, it wasnt my fault (though thats how i feel) ...how to fix an issue when you dont know the cause? What are some reasons someone would continue to have this behavior? How do you move past insecurities?
Hello all. I'm 28, married and a mom of 2 young kids. My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and together 6 in total. I met a guy online in October of 2018 and I flew out to meet him in November of 2018. Crazy, I know. He's also married with a young child. Long story short, we have both found that we have fallen for one another, but being together really isn't a forseeable option....
I asked my husband to stop his affair with the other woman He followed me but now he is treating me like a roommate. What should I do?