I don't post here much but I do visit often..One year ago today was probably the worst day of my life...I would say betrayal is even worse than a death because it is totally preventable.
I thought we would try to work through it but sadly my husband never gave up contact with the OW..We struggled along and I keep fighting for us..The problem is I was the only one fighting...
I have the divorce papers all filled out and I am ready to file..It has been hard for me to do this..Several times I went down to the court house only to turn around and go back home...He will never change and I think to him ,and her, this is some sick little game..
I have repeatedly told him to go be with her..That I am OK and I will heal in time..The dumb ass just continues to lie and say he isn't seeing her..
When they are out in the open I told him I guarantee you she will be nothing but drama...Anyway, he had a great , loving, committed wife who he has pushed aside for a piece of trash..
We went on vacation in June to Mexico and had a great time..How can they act like this? Like everything is ok and then sneak around your back to see the OW..

Well, as painful as this is I am really ready to move on now..I am scared, nervous , and excited to see what lies ahead for me..

I wish everyone who has to deal with this peace and happiness and I truly believe you will get to that place..