Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Well my ex spouse who left me in 2010 for his ex girlfriend after 22 yrs of marriage and moved to Florida leaving everything behind has been found on facebook. He has two friends from the church where he was pastor and also one of my daughter in laws.
I think he is trying to find my other son who is still not speaking to him right now.
I was not investigating this. It was told to me by my other daughter in law.
So I went to my grandsons 2 yr old party Saturday all made up with a new makeover and quite a few people were surprised. Who were there? Many people who knew the old looking me. I am now blonde and wear make up and earrings and I was all dressed up.
One of his contacts was there too. I hope he finds out how good I look. Not that he would give a shit but at least he would know I look better and that I am not dying over this divorce. That jerk!!!
I think he is trying to find my other son who is still not speaking to him right now.
I was not investigating this. It was told to me by my other daughter in law.
So I went to my grandsons 2 yr old party Saturday all made up with a new makeover and quite a few people were surprised. Who were there? Many people who knew the old looking me. I am now blonde and wear make up and earrings and I was all dressed up.
One of his contacts was there too. I hope he finds out how good I look. Not that he would give a shit but at least he would know I look better and that I am not dying over this divorce. That jerk!!!
Darbi has a good point here and one that I so agree with. Sure, you make those changes to yourself, FOR yourself. Do it for you. Not him.
I know how you feel. Was married for 20 myself. Pulled the plug on that clown and his girlyfriend Spammy. I did the same thing. But I had to do it for me and not for him. My thought was 'I did this for you for 20 years and it wasn't enough? Now, asshole, I do it for me and you can go to hell.'
So, if he is lonely, good. If he is struggling, Good. But, more importantly, there is you, rising above this, getting on your feet...and being hot.
Sending my support, L~
I am learning that about my STBX. I gave her what she wanted, by letting her leave. The license to party and do what she wants. She is starting to see she made a mistake and that I am no longer available to come back to. So what will she do? More of the same no doubt. So she hasn't learned.
Yours, hasn't learned either.
(stands up...applauding!!!!!!!!!!)
Amen!
L~
Rbsjin,
Your h a pastor??? Nice!!!! The epitome of hypocrisy, huh???? Yeah, like the others said, don't worry about his sick little games, or him, or what he's thinking or feeling....it matters not!
You are the main menu now! Do for yourself what you need to do! Keep enjoying your new look, and discover the new you, that you will be transitioning into! Less focus on him, and more on you,...right now...is not selfish...it's actually healthy! YOu go girl!