Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I want to know if I should have gone ballistic when my cheating
husband said these words: I'm sorry for what I've done: I hurt you, I hurt myself and I hurt (skank's name) her." I replied , much to calmly, I think, that he didn't owe her anything. She knew exactly what she was doing whenshe set out to spread her legs for him. He, apparently and stupidly, didn't realize howe close he came to being exposed to the whole town, as a hypocritical, no-good,A--H-- he was if I had chosen to do so. In retrospect, I'm mad with myself for acting so like a damn doormat.
,
husband said these words: I'm sorry for what I've done: I hurt you, I hurt myself and I hurt (skank's name) her." I replied , much to calmly, I think, that he didn't owe her anything. She knew exactly what she was doing whenshe set out to spread her legs for him. He, apparently and stupidly, didn't realize howe close he came to being exposed to the whole town, as a hypocritical, no-good,A--H-- he was if I had chosen to do so. In retrospect, I'm mad with myself for acting so like a damn doormat.
,
Yup, I would see red at that one too.
Don't beat yourself up here, at the time this was the way that you thought right to respond. Keeping one's composure does have it's good points.
I have to say though that I agree with what you said, that the OW knew exactly what she was getting herself into when getting involved with a married man, so she deserves all that she gets.
Regards
A
Him saying that knowing that she knew would REALLY piss me off too.