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Caught red handed

bobbyjane
bobbyjane
My husband has history of sexting another woman which I chose to forgive him for and this has now happened. A mutual friend has sent a screen shot of this message to me that he sent to her after liking a new picture she posted of herself on facebook.

Him: Cor , I would xx (with a winking emoticon)

Her: What are you talking about ?

Him: Sorry that was my friend messing about, wtf, anyway how are you?

Her: Fine thanks , is your friend good looking? lol

Him: Not as good looking as me :) (another winking emoticon)

He is now telling me that it was his friend on his phone !! NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM.........Fed up with the bullshit that comes out of his mouth ....
calirn13
calirn13
does he have a iphone?
did he text or IM her on facebook
clearskye
clearskye
i can understand why you're upset... but appears innocent enough?... could you ask his friend to confirm to help you feel confident? ... having doubts in the one you love is painful for both of you...
bobbyjane
bobbyjane
He has I phone that was used . And he sent her I M on Facebook.
bobbyjane
bobbyjane
Clearskye. .that is always his chat up line . I would ..urrgghh
calirn13
calirn13
So he is fishing... IM me and I will help you get info off his phone
Lenoire
Lenoire
There is nothing "innocent enough" about this, and anyone who believes this is being fooled. It's not just bullshit that's coming out of his mouth, it's lies, deception, and betrayal, plain and simple.
bobbyjane
bobbyjane
Yes it is Lenoire. I see it for what it really is . He of course wants to make up and tell me differently pah he can sod off . He was definitely fishing again. Calirn3 please message me with that info re his iPhone ! Thanks
happymama2j
happymama2j
For some of you that are newer, this is an ongoing story with this poster's husband. So definitely does not sound innocent knowing the back history.

I am sorry to hear this is still going on and/or going on again. Please take the advice of those who know how to access his phone, and please do not buy into his "explanations."
(((HUGS)))