Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
If you are successfully re-building after infidelity this post is not for you.
This post is for the newly betrayed and those floundering in reconciliation.
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_13?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=the%20chump%20lady%20survival%20guide%20to%20infidelity&sprefix=the+chump+lad%2Caps%2C275&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Athe%20chump%20lady%20survival%20guide%20to%20infidelity
If you just found out about your spouses affair, you're going to be inundated with material about repairing your marriage. It's really all that's out there. The link to the book I posted is very different in that regard. It will help you see the whole picture and consider ALL your options.
If you're reconciling and things don't seem quite right; this book will help you discern the difference between true remorse and genuine imitation Naugahyde remorse.
Why else should you buy it?
The author is succinct and doesn't sugar coat anything but she will give you clarity and hope that there is something awesome on the other side of this mess. She will tell you that most of the time it's away from your cheater.
She is not anti reconciliation but she does believe that true reconciliation is much like a unicorn-sort of a mythical creature that we all want to believe in but ultimately VERY rare. She will show you what real remorse should look like and what you should run away from.
I tried reconciliation for three long years. I knew in my heart it wasn't genuine almost from the beginning but I spackled and hoped it would get better. I wasted three precious years of my life that I will never get back and if I can save even one person from that misery than I would feel awesome!!
If your reconciliation is everything you hoped it would be, then that's great. I'm happy for you but I'm here to tell the rest-after I left my (now official ex)-no more triggers, no more trust issues. I had sadness because I said goodbye to a 27 year old relationship and that's a long time but it's so much better for me now, the only thing I regret is not doing it sooner.
Buy the book-you won't be sorry!
This post is for the newly betrayed and those floundering in reconciliation.
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_13?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=the%20chump%20lady%20survival%20guide%20to%20infidelity&sprefix=the+chump+lad%2Caps%2C275&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Athe%20chump%20lady%20survival%20guide%20to%20infidelity
If you just found out about your spouses affair, you're going to be inundated with material about repairing your marriage. It's really all that's out there. The link to the book I posted is very different in that regard. It will help you see the whole picture and consider ALL your options.
If you're reconciling and things don't seem quite right; this book will help you discern the difference between true remorse and genuine imitation Naugahyde remorse.
Why else should you buy it?
The author is succinct and doesn't sugar coat anything but she will give you clarity and hope that there is something awesome on the other side of this mess. She will tell you that most of the time it's away from your cheater.
She is not anti reconciliation but she does believe that true reconciliation is much like a unicorn-sort of a mythical creature that we all want to believe in but ultimately VERY rare. She will show you what real remorse should look like and what you should run away from.
I tried reconciliation for three long years. I knew in my heart it wasn't genuine almost from the beginning but I spackled and hoped it would get better. I wasted three precious years of my life that I will never get back and if I can save even one person from that misery than I would feel awesome!!
If your reconciliation is everything you hoped it would be, then that's great. I'm happy for you but I'm here to tell the rest-after I left my (now official ex)-no more triggers, no more trust issues. I had sadness because I said goodbye to a 27 year old relationship and that's a long time but it's so much better for me now, the only thing I regret is not doing it sooner.
Buy the book-you won't be sorry!
I've been reading an eBook by Kevin Jackson that is written specifically for men trying to get over a wife's affair. Check out soyourwifecheated.com.
Her website is populated with men and women. Infidelity sucks no matter who it happens to.
It's a good read
I certainly agree that infidelity sucks no matter who it happens to. I didn't mean to suggest differently. All I meant was that the steps to healing tend to be very different for men than for woman.