I know some of you know a little bit of my story but here is my latest news so me and my H have been together almost 19 years we have two kids 17 and 10. D-day was 3/1/2015,it's been 3 years of a lot of ups and downs and getting through the A but we have came out Alot stronger and love each deeply it hasn't been easy by no means because the OW tries to contact my H randomly and it has caused some issues last time she tried was 2 and half months ago with a text. But we have talked about getting married for years and after losing both of my parents last year and all that we have been through we have decided to finally make it legal. My parents always wanted to see us married. I'm really excited and so is he. I just have a concern that of course why get married now after all these years but everything is different we are at a different place in our relationship and feel like we are ready for it. Also the OW is so obsessed with my H which I still don't understand cause obviously if he wanted her he would be with her but why she would keep trying is beyond me I fear she may try to interfere I know it won't work because after D-day i told him if thats what he wanted then he should leave and go with her but he didnt he stayed and did everything for us to work through this but this is a concern cause we know a lot of mutual people and I know she will find out so I'm just wondering how I should handle that if the situation comes about. Just wonder if anyone had any thoughts or suggestions about this
Hello all. I'm 28, married and a mom of 2 young kids. My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and together 6 in total. I met a guy online in October of 2018 and I flew out to meet him in November of 2018. Crazy, I know. He's also married with a young child. Long story short, we have both found that we have fallen for one another, but being together really isn't a forseeable option....
I asked my husband to stop his affair with the other woman He followed me but now he is treating me like a roommate. What should I do?