I know some of you know a little bit of my story but here is my latest news so me and my H have been together almost 19 years we have two kids 17 and 10. D-day was 3/1/2015,it's been 3 years of a lot of ups and downs and getting through the A but we have came out Alot stronger and love each deeply it hasn't been easy by no means because the OW tries to contact my H randomly and it has caused some issues last time she tried was 2 and half months ago with a text. But we have talked about getting married for years and after losing both of my parents last year and all that we have been through we have decided to finally make it legal. My parents always wanted to see us married. I'm really excited and so is he. I just have a concern that of course why get married now after all these years but everything is different we are at a different place in our relationship and feel like we are ready for it. Also the OW is so obsessed with my H which I still don't understand cause obviously if he wanted her he would be with her but why she would keep trying is beyond me I fear she may try to interfere I know it won't work because after D-day i told him if thats what he wanted then he should leave and go with her but he didnt he stayed and did everything for us to work through this but this is a concern cause we know a lot of mutual people and I know she will find out so I'm just wondering how I should handle that if the situation comes about. Just wonder if anyone had any thoughts or suggestions about this
In 2011 I had an emotional affair with another women. I promised my wife it’ll never happen again. Low and behold 7 years later it had a full blown sexual affair. I broke my wife’s heart. I have a problem? Why am I so insecure in myself that I try to find someone to build me up when I have it at home. Please help me.
i never thought in a million years I would be here... i found and married the woman of my dreams. I’m currently in the military and when we met, she helped me with my PTSD i was suffering from my last deployment. I’ve been stationed overseas without her and i did the unthinkable. I drank too much and I cheated on my wife... I don’t know what to do. She was cheated on by her ex fiancé and...