Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
my H has a history of lying and hiding that he did on the internet. & he used the internet to meet he woman he physically cheated with.
He has given me his passwords and told me he is not lying and is not doing anything wrong. I was checking on what he was doing and found that he had looked for nude pictures of an actress.
I asked him if he had done anything bad on the computer he said he had not. I showed him what I had found and he continued to lie at first then admitted it.
I have asked him not to lie to me. To just tell me if he does things. In the grand scheme of things this on the computer was small. But he lied about it, now I just keep thinking he probably has not told me everything, and will continue to lie to me in the future.
He has given me his passwords and told me he is not lying and is not doing anything wrong. I was checking on what he was doing and found that he had looked for nude pictures of an actress.
I asked him if he had done anything bad on the computer he said he had not. I showed him what I had found and he continued to lie at first then admitted it.
I have asked him not to lie to me. To just tell me if he does things. In the grand scheme of things this on the computer was small. But he lied about it, now I just keep thinking he probably has not told me everything, and will continue to lie to me in the future.
I feel if one is comfortable lying about the small stuff it's only a matter of time before they slip back into the big lies.
Definitely work through this one.
Our new one is young and I just don't know him that well. It makes me nervous.
Another thing that churches often have are accountability partners. The accountability partner for your H would be another man in the church. The two of them would meet frequently and be accountable to each other for their actions during that time. They are aware of each others struggles and I have heard that this is very helpful to a lot of people. This also allows men to grow close friendships with each other, something that is missing from a lot of men's lives.