I need some advice...... idk what to do or think. This going to be a long post..... idk what to do or think anymore. My husband..... Weve Been together since 2007. He has 2 children from a prior relationship - my step kids - who were 8 and 10 when we met. They are now 19 and 21. I love them as they are my own. We have no children together.Husband told me the Saturday before thanksgiving he is “talking” to someone. Devastated. Had no idea..... I asked him every now and then, hey you and me were ok right? We’re good? He would always say, yeah, were fine you have nothing to worry about. I asked him this 2 weeks prior to him telling me about the affair. He says She is different and exciting, he states she started it, and she said she is very attracted to him. I left, because the house we were in was ours and everywhere I look is us and it’s hard to be in that house knowing what he’s done. I have sent texts and called saying I missed him, I love him, this is a mistake and we can fix it because we’ve Been thru so many other awful things and made it we can do this. No answer other than let me know when you’re coming to get the rest of your stuff. Then he calls me, telling me he wants to see me in person and so I go see him. He wants to see me in person so he can tell me who he’s now been “ seeing” because it got out on her end and he wanted me to hear it from him not someone else. I ask home

How long, really, because who leaves an 11 year relationship for 2 weeks as he told me the day he confessed. He said October. Again, I tel him we could have fixed this. I Iove you and probably always will...... because I’m sure I always will