Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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pissdoff 04/19/2012

Ok, so this is what the dumb ass said to me when I talked to him about his cheating.. His exact words" Even if I supposedly was doing it, alot of people do this"HUH??? He makes it seem like it is acceptable..
He still hasn't admitted to it, but I went to see the lawyer to get the ball rolling...I can't wait to get rid of this clown..
The karma bus is coming because he owes a ton of back child support and I hope they throw his butt in jail :)

deleted_user 04/20/2012

Well, following that logic... a lot of people lie, steal, kill, do drugs, beat their children.... does that make it all ok? NO !!!!!!

That is one of the lamest 5-year-old excuses I've ever heard.

deleted_user 04/20/2012

LOL! Well, the good thing is, especially when their dumb ass reasoning and excuses come out, then you really get a good pic in addition to the cheating, lying, and hiding. Glad you know your self-worth and you're dumping the loser. Settling for a cheater shouldn't be an option.

Lstecker 04/20/2012

So, this is how he thinks and processes and logics, hey? Good to know from here on out.

...I would have said, 'Alot of people do it? really? Clown, only DIRTY people...a lot of people DON'T do it either.'

Maybe he should have made himself clear when he got married, that the notions of society would determine his fidelity, or lack thereof, that the whims of the group would determine his integrity, or lack thereof...

Slimeball.

L~

Blindsidedagain 04/20/2012

Yes....and ALOT of people lie about having affairs too.

pinkpony66 04/20/2012

A lot of people do have A. That doesn't excuse or allow it. Lots of people take drugs, lots of people drive drunk, but try saying that in court to the mother of the child killed by that drunk driver.

Wrong is wrong, and A leave a trail of heartache, pain and anger in its path.

Kick the dickheaded clown to the curb.

deleted_user 04/20/2012

I'm quite disappointed about how common is it, based on the statistics reported in the books I've read. It is also a common plot in movies and TV programs. Many jokes are based on a cheating spouse (just check out Playboy's joke page).
It's no longer funny for me.
Yes it's common, but that doesn't mean it's acceptable.
Marajuanna is acceptable to a degree, in many circles and even legal in a few states. Doesn't mean I want my kids participating.

deleted_user 04/20/2012

yeah, it's kind of like your mom used to say "well if they all decided to jump off a cliff would you do it?" At least that is what my mom used to say. Really lame! Boy I am waiting for that karma bus to pull up myself!!

deleted_user 04/20/2012

My thoughts exactly-sillysuzie- my mom used to say that too. We should wack that guy just for making us sound like our mothers!!

hairymick 04/21/2012

or kick him in the nuts?

deleted_user 04/21/2012

That works too Mick!

pinkpony66 04/21/2012

My mom said jump off a bridge, lol.

pissdoff 04/21/2012

yeah I like the idea of kicking him in the nuts...Although this fool isn't worth going to jail over....

hairymick 04/21/2012

Do what the cheaters do love, deny everything.

pissdoff 04/22/2012

Yeah, I could say my foot slipped and hit him in the nuts..lol.....Although I think he lost his nuts a long time ago..

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