Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
In just 3 hrs it will be 6months since I found out my guy of 7yrs cheated. I woke up because he wasn't in bed. So I went to the living room to find him asleep at the computer. Felt something wasn't right. So i woke him up to ask what was going on. He was acting funny. And would show his Facebook which up until a few weeks before he had no problem with me knowing his fb password. So I took the computer and hacked his accnt. Sure as she he had been up all night fling her. I felt so sick. And at times like now reallythinking back on it I want to puke.
SO scared because the family of the ow lives in the same town as us and her sister has gone as far as flipping off my 6 and 3 yr olds while steaming fuck and spitting at our car. My son starts tball tomorrow and the ow's sister's daughter is also playing. I really hope they are not on the same team. Dont know how I am gonna get any sleep. Please keep your figures crossed for me and keep me in your prayers. I just have to remember it is about the kids and try not to let her get to me. How would u handle something lIke this?
SO scared because the family of the ow lives in the same town as us and her sister has gone as far as flipping off my 6 and 3 yr olds while steaming fuck and spitting at our car. My son starts tball tomorrow and the ow's sister's daughter is also playing. I really hope they are not on the same team. Dont know how I am gonna get any sleep. Please keep your figures crossed for me and keep me in your prayers. I just have to remember it is about the kids and try not to let her get to me. How would u handle something lIke this?
I wanted to tell you how sorry i am that you have to deal with this behavior. I am just stunned but some of the actions you have described.
How terrible that you have to cope with this somehow. I know you are going to manage and prioritize.
Hope someone who has lived through this will have some helpful advice that you can apply.
I hate that you have to deal with this and hope she moves on soon - craziness! Also hope your guy sees what a whack-job he got involved with.
What nerve, the sister sticking herself into your issues! What must the OW be telling her??? They clearly have no sense of boundaries.
At the very least, I'd tell the T-ball coach that your and this other woman's children need to be kept apart. Sports bring out the worst in some parents and the last thing you'd want is this whack job spewing bile in the stands.
I have to deal with the OM's family. I see his kids everywhere. I run into his ex wife quite a bit and we have talked. She is married again and we do not talk as much, but she was my spy for a while. Her daughters would give hints and she would relay it back to me.
His kids know about the affair and I am sure they have told their friends, and so on. My son played sports against his son and it was hard thinking that he could easily blurt out, hey, my dad screwed your mom just to piss my son off as teenagers like to do.
The stress that leads up to that day is incredible. I found myself not even watching my sons game, but looking for the OM.
Do you think the OW could show up to watch the game? Just make sure you are there for your child and be the bigger person. Do not stare or even glance. Pretend they are not even there. Just keep showing your husband lots of affection while he is there. Afterwards you can bitch slap him for putting you on the spot like that.
Just enjoy yourself and your childs game.
Good luck
Do whatever you can to extinguish, not fan, the flames.
BUT, since that's just ME....maybe for you, you could get a restraining order? A CHL (concealed handgun license)? Maybe a big, mean ass pitbull?
*sigh*....really, just consider having your husband deal with this issue...job of the man is to protect his wife/kids...home slice needs to grow some kiwis and stand up for you.
If all else fails...fk it, it's almost 4th of july...I'm sure someone has some fireworks you can use to burn their house down. (evil devil on my left shoulder is cheering)