Communication is key. you probably will not be able to move on until he starts talking.
have you tried couples counseling?

I know what you are going through, my husband is the same way....I agree with distancemj, communication is key but without it, what other options do you have? How many past relationships has be been in and when was the last one?

because if he is still doing it or it has not been that long, it is no doubt that you would still have some issues dealing with things... Trust and bitter honesty is key to a relationship, without them, what else is there? If he won't be honest with you, why are you wasting your time? I am speaking from experience and wish so badly that I could go back in time and not have wasted so much time on a person that I simply did not matter too..... place more value in yourself and see your husband for what he really is... if he is truly trying to change and you sincerely have hopes for the future, get into counseling and don't stop! If he won't go at first, you go alone... often times the other will start going afterwards..good luck!

Distancemj he don't want to go to someone and talk about his feelings. He said he don't believe and going and talking to someone.

Scaredsad he's been in alot. He just can't be alone, he goes from one relationship to the next. He got out of one when we met and was talking to a girl and had sex with her before us meeting

Then why do you place so little value on yourself to allow this to continue happening? It is true that you cannot control your husband, but what you can control is you and you do not have to choose to live like this. How long have you been together/married and do you have children? I stayed in a bad relationship for waaaayyyy to long because I thought that it eventually would get better...it didn't and now getting out of it sucks sure, but it is also the best thing that I have done...I wish that I would have done it a long time ago.

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I wish you could edit these!

if he does not believe in going to counseling, than he is using a closed mind, and is not willing to work at rebuilding. Yes you could probably accomplish it between the two of you, but that 3rd neutral party is so big when the feelings are so raw.

You wrote:

Scaredsad he's been in alot. He just can't be alone, he goes from one relationship to the next. He got out of one when we met and was talking to a girl and had sex with her before us meeting"

Either I am missing something or you left something out? Both scenarios above don't represent cheating - he wasn't with you.

Now, if you are saying throughout your relationship with him he keeps cheating and is refusing counseling and wants you to just get over it - it's time for you to make some moves and save yourself from the madness before he breaks you further.

Seems like you just got married? - why did you marry someone who was always cheating? - You are only 22? - so sorry sweetie, this is even too much for you to process. Seek counseling and support from your family and get out of the situation if indeed you are dealing with a habitual cheater.

Best wishes to you.

Miliejay he has cheated on me from 1 month of us being together he's sexted other woman for god knows how long, wrote a ex, has watched porn behind my back.