Lina I am so sorry your pain is extra intense today. Please know I am going to pray hard for you to have a moment of peace today. And that I am giving you a HUGE HUG. YOUR MIRACLE WILL COME and I will pray for you until then. HUGS

I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time today... nothing seems to help when things feel that way. Just know that we are all here to support you!

You absolutely break my heart. I admit, I am blessed with our 4 yr. old son, but have been trying and unsuccessfully haven't not conceived the last 3 1/2yrs. I understand feelings of total hopelessness, it's miserable, especially when others around you are having babies. Prayers for you and all infertility ridden friends. Hang on and keep looking up. He may not take away your burden at the moment, but He promises to always be with us and gives us strength when we feel all is lost!

I'm so sorry. I have days where I fell like that too. I had 2 m/c's so my RE has a whole plan of meds laid out for when I finally conceive again and I'm scared to deth that it won't work sometimes or that I'll keep going though this over and over and end uo in debt with nothing to show for it.

But on some other days I feel more hopeful that everything will eventually come together as long as I keep trying. My dad always said "God helps those who help themselves", so I keep praying that it'll happen for me one day. It will happen for you. It's normal to have really bad days, we all do here. Just do the best you can to get through them and keep trying as best you can. I pray that we all get our babies soon.

I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so low- please keep your hope alive and know that miracles happen and yours will come! I have not been through a m/c- as far as I know I have never ever been pregnant and we have been TTC for 9 years, but I know I have felt that my children were 'out there somewhere' and have not understood why we have had to go through all of this struggle to get 'there'. Please know you are not alone and don't give up hope!

Don't give up hope! Hang in there...we all have our days where we feel like it will never happen for us.

I'm so sorry you are feeling this way today!! I know when I feel like that, usually after AF has started yet again, nothing anyone says makes me feel any better, I just have to get through the day and usually the next day is better!!

I'm so sorry!! I'm hoping that tomorrow will be better for you!!!

I am sorry, and I feel like I am in the same boat as you. So, I am not going to offer you advice, because I have none for myself. I really dislike being given advice on how to change my thoughts and feelings from expectant or current mothers. They do not know what the struggle feels like! I currently know TWENTY people that are expecting at this very moment. The sheer number is overwhelming. It truly does feel like "everyone" is pregnant but me. I can tell you are very upset. I came to this group to find other depressed/disappointed women like myself, and I have found the right place. I hope we can console each other!
Cara

It's so true that it seems like the universe conspires to arrange things to have bad timing, just to torture us!! For years at my work, none of the women were pregnant or even trying, then all of a sudden in the last two years about 10 of them, all in my department have been walking around pregnant with first and seconds. I am the ONLY one who hasn't. Why only me? It's like a cruel joke. I've grown weary of seeing AF appear. It's like someone pushing me down, kicking dirt in my face and laughing. Sorry to sound like a downer but it's all just to say... you're not alone!!! Hang in there. Our day will come.