My RE recommended having sex a couple days before IUI and I was on stim shots so I am going to say, go get some!

It's fine. If you are doing IVF, no sex after ET.

My RE suggested sex before RE. NOT after trigger shot though and not highly recommended during 2ww after ET.

This is funny because my RE scared me to death about doing anything to jar or shake my ovaries during stims. The nurse told me that your ovaries are so large they can flip and it is very painful. Therefore my poor husband is about to go insane. Since, I had AF, then BCP which caused me to bleed and then stims. It has been about a month in my house since we've "done it". I just assumed since they told me to not run, jump, lift anything heavy. That sex would be out of the question while on stims.
I go to the RE on Saturday to do a final check and set up ER. My husband is going with me, I wonder if he will ask the RE and then when the RE says........intercourse is fine. My hubby is going to be pissed.

UH OH Janlei! ;-) Maybe RE will back you up! :-)

I was told only after ET no sex. BUT I can say I wasn't in the mood anyway. Once the follies started growing and getting bigger and I was feeling uncomfortable, that was the last thing on my mind! lol

I would say it is the last thing on my mind because I am at the uncomfortable stage, I am not sure how my follies are now, but Tuesday there were 14. I'll find out tomorrow when ER is.
However, the lack of sex it can't be the last thing on my mind because my husband reminds me multiple times a day. LOL!
I hope he doesn't take advantage of me when I am drugged up from the ER. :0)

my RE didn't say anything about not haveing sex except for the 2 days before they di IUI, they wanted him to build up as much sperm as possible. sometimes it can be a little uncomfortable if he thrusts to the left or right depending on which side i O on. but other than that i would go crazy without my "daily dose of love"