So I told all of inlaws about my husband's and my unexplained infertility a few months ago and basically received all the comments that are hurtful and have received no support or anything since. I did get a card in the mail saying if I wanted to talk...but why would I open up to my PREGNANT SIL...ugh...like she would understand. My youngest (of 3) SIL is due to have her baby in August. Yesterday the MIL springs on me that they are going to have the baby shower on July 19th...the same day my ONLY real friend at work is getting married and I already told her I'd go. I am very hurt by my inlaws that they did not ask me if I would be free that day. I know I probably would not have gone to the shower because I am not emotionally able to handle it but they don't know that. I feel they have been incredibly insensitive to not ask me about the date. Then the MIL has the nerve to ask my husband if I am ignoring my youngest SIL....I mean why should I be bending over backwards to this family when they can not even ask me if I am free for the day they plan this event. And I can't believe that the MIL can't even try and understand what I am going through and how maybe talking to a VERY pregnant SIL might be VERY hard for me to deal with. I really hate my inlaws they make things more difficult for me by their blatant disregard for me. Everything is always about them and their family. I was in a car accident last week where I could have died and I hadn't talked to my MIL since then and the first thing she says to me when I go over to her house is "aren't you excited". I'm like excited about what ... I was just in a car accident. These people have no clue. Then she didn't even say what I should be excited about. So weird. But I am the weird one...