Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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r e a l l y!!!!!! What is life about........

me2007
me2007
OMG if I can't have a baby what is life really about??????????????????????? I have been TTC for over a year now and nothing!!!!! I really want a baby of my own!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please give me some prayers and hop.....................Thank you
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hi,
Welcome to this site. I have been off BC for 2 years and TTC for about 16 months.
I have been through numerous failed treatments and it is one of the worst pains I could imagine. Have you seen an RE yet? Have you received any kind of diagnosis? We are all here to support you, listen to you and be your friend.
Only women who are going through infertility can truly understand the myriad of feelings that come along with it. Good luck and god bless. Please let me know if you ever need to talk.
You are not alone, not by a long shot.
Wanting a baby consumes my life and I really can relate to what you are saying.
I wish i could ease your pain. Please post any time you have questions and we will try to help. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Welcome....I've been ttc 3 years on my 5th IUI, moving to IVF next month if no BFP. I find myself thinking that too. What am I meant to do if not this? I'm I on the totally wrong path, do I care about the wrong things...am I honoring myself in this once in a lifetime chance to live??? Ahh...the pondering that goes on when we start second guessing ourselves b/c we can't get prego. I try to remember how sure I was before all of this...and I hold onto it...b/c one day this will be over and one day you wont even be thinking about it anymore :) There have been many painful times in my life and at the time, I thought it was the worst pain I could feel and I'll never be able to move on, I did and I will from this too. This is temporary!

Good Luck!
deleted_user
deleted_user
It is a hard and sometimes a long battle, but you just can't loose the faith. Just keep trusting and saying to yourself that it is going to happen. When you see that negative sign, just think its gonna happen, I just got to get ready for next month. Just picture your baby in your mind, what it will look like, what its name will be, will it be a boy or a girl. That always helps me. I just hope it helps you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry that you are feeling so hopeless. Been there. But it's not over yet and you will be in my prayers. My mantra at the moment is "Life is what happens while we are making other plans." Try to enjoy life as it is as much as possible, even though you are missing what you want most. Good luck and lots of baby dust to you.