Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
Hi everyone, I took a month off from baby making and IUI's to visit my mom. Left my DH at home. Returned yesterday and went to my RE today to begin discussing IVF. I have to be honest, I am not happy about having to start IVF. I'm nervous about the whole process and scared of the shots. So I was happily surprised when my Dr. told me he wanted to go two more cycles with IUI/Clomid. He said all my hormone levels were good, that my FSH was 10 last cycle and 6 the cycle before, and that those were good numbers considering I am 40. So I have youngish eggs, hormones good, one previous successful pregnancy - so what's wrong? He just shrugged and said maybe we just need a little more time and a few more tries before going to IVF. He did mention however, that my DH's sperm is round, rather than pointy. Has anyone ever heard of this? He said motility and amount are fine, but if the shape is abnormal sometimes that can prevent the sperm from entering the egg. When I told my husband this he was offended and sarcastically said "SORRY!". My RE did ask if my DH smokes, and the answer is an unfortunate yes. He suggested that he quit smoking, which may improve his sperm quality. Does anyone have any info or experience with misshapen sperm and smoking? And are there any suggestions for improving sperm? We've had the stop smoking talk before, just not sure if that is something he is willing to do at this time.
Cigarette Smoking
Cigarette smoking is a no-no for anyone trying to conceive a child. Both first- and second-hand smoke have been shown to reduce sperm count in men, and can also affect sperm morphology. A recent study performed at the University of Buffalo concludes that nicotine and tobacco impair the ability of sperm to bind to the outer layer of the egg, impeding fertilization.
We are dealing with male morphology as well, almost no normal shaped sperm (Krueger test). Our RE recomended taking antioxidants eg Vit C, Vit E and no hot baths. I have also read that sperm morphology issues in terms of conceiving are not as serious as having motility or count issues.. well in our case ttc 3 yrs.. I am also really anxious about doing IVF.. esp w ICSI. But we are going to see RE in a week and a half to determine course of treatment for us, and if it is IVF, I'm just going to make sure that I am as prepared as I can be.. I am tired of waiting! btw, for any of you who are in same boat and might be concidering IVF for first time: http://www.theafa.org/community/chat
Its My First IVF Cycle How Do I Prepare and What Should I Expect? August 20, 2008 - Wednesday 8:00 PM to 9:00 PM (EST)
I just joined AFA, and this will be the first live online chat I attend.. I really hope that they are helpful and informative.
Cyncognito, I hope that your DH quits smoking. Good luck to you!