
Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

kimbochi
I am 7 dpo and I am anxiously awaiting whatever is going to come my way.... I have been sooooo busy and trying desperately not to over think HA! Well, just can't wait till the next week is OVER. Why does it go sooooo slow? I am overanalyzing every symptom, and I know that the more I do that the less likely I'm going to get my BFP. So sick of the BIG disappointment every month, that I think I decided to just be down the whole 2 weeks. Not Good!

deleted_user
It's so hard not to have expectations every month. You try to convince yourself that you are not pregnant just to avoid the severe dissappointment when AF comes.Yet deep down you get excited thinking this month could be the month.IT'S EXHAUSTING!!! We all do it though so don't feel bad about being down.I hope this month really is your month.

deleted_user
I do the same thing in the 2ww. I analyze every sinlge symptom and convice myslef of things and then 10 min later talk myself out of it and get depressed. No matter how you prepare yourself though I don't think you can ever avoid the disappointment of a BFN. I hope you get your BFP this month! Good luck!

deleted_user
I can completely relate to what you're all saying. It's so dissapointing when that BFN comes, even though you've been saying you don't think it's your month you still feel totally despondent and miserable. This is my and my husbands 9 month of trying now - so not as long as some of you, but still long enough to be getting really upset by it all...

deleted_user
Yup, I do the same thing. I try to be negative (my dh gets mad at me for not being positive enough), but deep down I want to believe that I am pregnant. I over analyze every symptom and of course it does not help that the meds make you feel so different. Hang in their girl, you can do it!

deleted_user
I do the same thing. Over analyze, talk myself in and out of stuff. Deep down I want a BFP, but somehow I know it will be a BFN. Your not alone.

deleted_user
I am right there with you today. I think that we all seem to live by the hope for the best and expect the worst philosophy, and that is really hard. My 2WW is over Wednesday and I am terrified to test b/c as much as I am preparing myself for the worst I don't really want to go through the disssapointment. I will pray that this month will be a good one for you.
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