Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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lina2008 11/02/2012

yep, another friend post her baby news on FB....

This time the winner is the little girl I sued to baby sit down the road... when I first met her she was in nappies, now she is having her second child.

to top it off I've started spotting which means that AF will show her ugly face any moment...

In desperate need of a sad movie and some tissues...

deleted_user 11/02/2012

Sending you some love from Canada. I am so sorry to hear this news. Unfortunately I know the feeling all too well and I think alot of other women here do too.

I didn't realize how stuck my hubby and I were until my cousin announced her 2nd pregnancy, they started trying 6 months AFTER we did ;(

Big hug to you!

RenoHusker 11/02/2012

I'm sorry, this type of news really stings. I hope a good cry can help you feel a tiny bit better. It works for me, a lot of the time. Hugs!

shawnie0906 11/02/2012

That's hard to swallow:(

I hope you can do something nice for yourself this weekend to make you feel a little better.

kevsgirl9797 11/02/2012

I'm right there with ya. It seems like everyone I know is either pregnant or just had yet another baby. How's this for a big fat slap in the face from mother nature? There are 4 cousins on my Mom's side. I am the oldest of the 4, and this summer, I was the only one of the 4 not pregnant!! My baby sister (5 years younger than me) just had her first baby. She found out she was pregnant when she went in to have her gallbladder removed, and they did a pre-op preggo test.

Might I suggest, however, you go for a ridiculously funny movie and a bottle of wine? I find that combo to be much more soothing, and much less depressing. :)

XOXO

Littlemisscyn 11/03/2012

Unfortunately I know how you feel the girl I used to baby sit had a baby last month. What stings me the most is she is only 14-15 years old.

deleted_user 11/03/2012

Im sorry I know this type of news hurts! I unfortunately see it almost every day on FB thats why I have come to hate even signing on there.

Kelly0713 11/04/2012

I am sorry. I just found out that my aunt is expecting her second. My second baby in the family announcement in a week.

It's so hard because I am happy for them and I want to have more nephews and cousins. I think of myself as a supportive person.

But hearing the news makes me feel like crap and feel like even worse crap because I feel I am not being a good person since I feel like crap. Anyway right there with you. Hugs

deleted_user 11/04/2012

That's tough and I understand all too well. All of my classmates who I reconnected with on FB are done having kids and the kids I used to babysit are onto their 2nd or 3rd. As of Halloween, my DH and I are the last of our siblings to have children and we are the oldest! So crazy :(
Hope you were able to have a good cry and that you are feeling better now. Big Hugs!

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