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Since my old RE did not think I had any signs of endo etc he did not think it was worth it. Even after my mc he was all, "well if it would make you feel better we can do it".
We went to get a second opinion and our new RE said lets do a lap before you waste any more time. It was the best thing we could have done. Turns our I had stage 3 endo with lots of adhesions, 2 tiny fibroids and a uterine septum (the most likely cause of my mc).
Like Nelly said. Recovery time really depends on what they find, how handle pain and what you do for work. My lap was on a Thursday and I was at work by Monday. Although even if my lap had been Friday, I probably would have still been back on Monday. I was rather sore and moved slow for a good week+ but I sit at work all day so going back after 4 days was not too bad. If you think you wont be able to take too make extra days off work, I would shoot for having surgery Thursday or Friday and plan on taking those 3-4 days off with the weekend.
My second lap was in May, and the surgeon removed almost all of the endo that was left in by the last surgeon plus removed multiple endometriomas from both ovaries. I'm going to be totally honest with you: recovery was absolutely horrendous. I know part of the problem was that I was on narcotics for pain prior to the surgery so they didn't work as well for me after, but I literally thought I was dying because the pain was so bad.
The good news is that if you *do* have severe endo, I can pretty much guarantee that you're going to wake up and be told that none of it was removed, so you probably won't have a tough recovery in that respect. And I say "good news" with quite a bit of sarcasm. Good luck with your surgery, I hope they find something mild and are able to fix it and that this is your ticket to your BFP. If you have any questions about the surgery, feel free to send me a private message!
The RE suggested I have IVF, but after researching a bit I realised that hydro may make IVF a waste of time so I requested a Lap to get a clearer picture and maybe clip the tubes with hydro. (I had to sign consent for this)
Sadly afterwards it turned out that both tubes were blocked and with hydros so they clipped them both to prevent ectopics and and although this left me clinically infertile, strangely enough somehow that felt better than the not knowing!!!
I relaxed more after I knew the deal and knew the next step in the plan of action.
I recovered really well and the worst part was the sore shoulder for a few days after! (well that and the sterility)